A 4th Year of Books: 52 Books in 52 Weeks

As I begin 2023 with the goal of reading 52 books in 52 weeks (my 4th year!), I’m filled with excitement of the endless reading possibilities this year will bring. So many new books are being released this year and there are still so many that are on my to read list- I can’t wait to get started!

Two Nights in Lisbon (by Chris Pavone)- A thriller involving an American kidnapping in Lisbon (a traveler’s worst nightmare situation for sure) with an ending so shocking you won’t see it coming. Trust me, you may be able to make some guesses as the book goes on, but you won’t be able to guess the ending until its over. Nothing is ever what it seems and certainly not the book’s protagonist, Ariel Pryce.

Rock, Paper, Scissor (by Alice Feeney)- Wow, this book was amazing! There are the characters you think you know and then there are the characters you won’t see coming. In fact, you won’t be able to see the ending coming either… The best thriller- I highly recommend! Plus its set in the beautiful, but deserted, Scottish highlands and we know nothing ever good happens in the middle of a Scottish winter storm…

The It Girl (by Ruth Ware)- The book’s premise is set on a college murder of Oxford University’s It girl and the impact it has on her surviving friends, particularly her best friend and roommate, Hannah. This whodunit mystery will keep you guessing until literally the end- there were so many times throughout the plot where I thought I had outsmarted the author and figured out the killer only to discover in the next chapter that I was dead wrong.

The Girls Weekend (by Jody Gehrman)- 5 college girlfriends. 1 remote mansion in Washington’s San Juan Islands. 1 murder. This book has all the ingredients for a perfect whodunit and boy are there a lot of suspects. It’s a mix between a Lucy Foley novel and a Sex and the City gone wrong plot.

Nothing More to Tell (by Karen M McManus)- I’ve been so excited for the newest Karen McManus mystery and Nothing More to Tell is no different from McManus’ other books in that the protagonist is a high school female student who investigates a local murder with an array of potential suspects. Its an easy read- perfect for a vacation!

The Summer Place (by Jennifer Weiner)- I decided to take a brief break from reading thrillers (although that really is my favorite genre) and foray into a book about a Jewish American multigenerational family based in Brooklyn. The story is told from multiple family members perspectives from the stepmother and protagonist, Sarah, to her husband Eli to her stepdaughter Ruby (whose wedding is bringing the entire family together for a celebration on Cape Cod), to her mother Ronnie. I loved the family drama and secrets and how it portrays that no family is perfect, even one that looks that way from the outside.

Little Monsters (by Kara Thomas)- Another one of my favorite authors, Kara Thomas, has written another excellent book. The suspense created in Little Monsters by the protagonist, Kacey, and her friends and family, is second to none. Throughout the book I was constantly questioning what happened to Kacey’s friend Bailey? I was shocked by the ending and really liked how all the plot points were fully addressed at the end.

The Family Chao (by Lan Samantha Chang)- Happy Lunar New Year! To celebrate the Year of the Rabbit, I decided to read an Asian American story about a family of Chinese immigrants living in a rural town of Wisconsin. The Chao family is made up of Leo (a problematic crass father) and Winnie (a softspoken mother) and their 3 sons (Dagou, Ming, and James) who are learning about identity and belonging as Asian born Americans. There’s crazy family dynamics, complicated romantic relationships, and even a murder- the Chao family’s story is the perfect story for the Asian American.

My Dark Vanessa (by Kate Elizabeth Russell)- I decided to join a friend’s monthly book club January meeting to start off the year by trying something new and listened to My Dark Vanessa via audiobook. And wow… Dark Vanessa is dark… and very disturbing. The book addresses the very relevant topics of sexual assault, #metoo, gaslighting, and manipulation. The disturbing relationship between Vanessa and her much older male teacher is told from her point of view in a past and present timeline and a lot of details were truly sickening. I hope that younger girls read this story and recognize the signs of grooming and hopefully avoid a similar situation.

Marple: 12 New Mysteries (by Various Authors)- I love old school mysteries and Agatha Christie’s Miss Marple is the original female sleuth and detective. When I discovered this series of mysteries by various renowned authors, I could not wait to read. Each chapter in the book is written by a different author (some of my favorite mystery writes too!) and tell a brand new Miss Marple adventure. From London to the US to even Hong Kong, there are 12 mysteries that are told in true Agatha Christie style.

Carrie Soto is Back (by Taylor Jenkins Reid)- The latest by Taylor Jenkins Reid (of Daisy Jones fame) was amazing as usual. Jenkins Reid’s style of writing evokes such a vivid fictional world that you fully believe it as reality. Throughout the book, I was rooting for Carrie the entire time and wanted to look her up on Wikipedia several times because her rise to success just seemed so real. I learned so much about tennis and the cost of success- such a wonderful story!

Eight Perfect Murders (by Peter Swanson)- True crime is definitely my genre and I could not wait to read Peter Swanson’s highly anticipated novel. I loved how the plot brings in different murders from 8 renowned mystery novels and there are essentially several crimes to solve within this one book. The ending is definitely not what it seems.

Hello Girls (by Brittany Cavallaro and Emily Henry)- A Thelma and Louise type plot where two best friends (each suffering from various issues at home) go on the run with stolen drugs, stolen cash, and a stolen car. All they have to rely on in the wild is each other (I was so jealous of their unconditional friendship the entire time) and their instincts. The two encounter multiple roadblocks and characters along the way and learn that survival of the fittest isn’t just a phrase you hear on TV, but real life.I love Emily Henry’s modern day romance stories (Beach Read!), but this is nothing like those books so prepared to be shocked.

Pretty Dead Queens (by Alexa Donne)- I was impressed by Alexa Donne’s other novel, The Ivies, and liked its lighthearted whodunit style of mystery so I decided to read Donne’s latest release as well. There’s a high school murder, a clique of friends, twisted family members, and a strong heroine so you know it will be a good ending and the journey won’t scare the pants off you- my type of mystery!

Remarkably Bright Creatures (by Shelby Van Pelt)- The SWEETEST novel ever written. My heart was completely melted by the end of this heartwarming story because the idea that humans have creatures like an Octopus looking out for us and caring about us and helping us is so endearing that you just want it to be real. I loved how the author (this is her debut novel too!) weaved in the octopus’ thoughts and actions along with the human story. I hope Van Pelt continues to write and release books because I’m hooked!

Five Survive (by Holly Jackson)- The complete opposite of the previous book I read. I did not expect this totally scary book from Holly Jackson (who penned the Good Girl Murder series). There are 6 friends and 1 RV- based on the title of this book, its clear that the ending won’t be easy. The entire book is told over the course of one night un hour increments and each chapter is scarier than the last. Pro tip- Read this around other people!

Aesthetica (by Allie Rowbottom)- I would have never picked up this book if a book club I joined hadn’t picked it as its March read.and after reading its 265 pages, I wish I hadn’t. Rarely do I dislike a book, but I felt that Aesthetica was extremely disturbing in a way that didn’t even make sense in the end. The author began many relevant story lines (mother daughter relationships, pressures of social media, the lure of constant plastic surgery to look “perfect”, regret of age), sexual assault), but none of these story lines had a well thought out ending. There were many unanswered questions in the end and nothing was ever wrapped up. Aesthetica was probably one of my least favorite books this year.

It Starts With Us (by Colleen Hoover)- I was so moved by the first book in the series, It Ends With Us, and its story of dealing and overcoming abuse that I knew I had to read the sequel as soon as it was released. The author writes in the Acknowledgments section that she wrote this sequel in order to give Lily and Atlas’ story a happy ending and that is truly what she does. I loved reading about how beautiful second chances can be and .true love is out there. However, Hoover doesn’t shy away from the difficulties that divorce when children are involved can be and how hard getting away from an abusive relationship really is. I felt like I had a better understanding of how strong an individual needs to be in order to leave a relationship that is unhealthy.

Iona Iverson’s Rules to Commuting (by Clare Poole)- I love London and reading this book made me so nostalgic for my many trips over the Atlantic Ocean to one of the best cities in the world. Iona Iverson’s story is based on her train route from Hampton Court to Waterloo where she meets all sorts of new friends who help her sort through her life’s many encounters as she faces aging. I loved how Iona is an older woman and the cast of supporting characters are individuals from all walks of life of all ages and races- there aren’t too many lovable stories these days with such a diverse group of characters. These characters tell their stories in rotating chapters, which allows the reader to connect with each one.

Jacqueline in Paris (by Ann Mah)- I started this historical fiction about Jackie Kennedy’s time in Paris while exploring Pittsburgh on a solo trip and it made me wish I was actually exploring in Paris. While fiction, the book brings in real life characters and accurate details to where it made me almost believe that Jackie Kennedy really did all those things while in Paris! I loved reading about her adventures and hearing about her love for the French culture and the city of Paris.

The American Roommate Experience (by Elena Armas)- I loved reading The Spanish Love Deception so reading Armas’ newest book was a no brainer. I couldn’t put it down while on my Pittsburgh solo trip and it was the perfect companion in the Houston coffee shops I visited after returning home. Its a uber romantic and lighthearted story about the best friend of the main character in Spanish Love Deception and I’m so glad that she had a happy ending as well.

Wrong Place Wrong Time (by Gillian McAllister)- I haven’t read anything from Reese Witherspoon’s book club yet this year (I use to read from this list religiously, just check out my Year 1 post) so I thought I would select one to read while on my Cinnicinati weekend trip. Wrong Place Wrong Time is a fantasy time travel/suspense/mystery novel about a mom frantically trying to figure out why her son suddenly commits a crime right in front of her eyes. While on her time travel journey to find out the truth, she also finds out so much more than she ever imagined. So well written and had me guessing until the end!

The Magpie Society: One For Sorrow (by Amy McCullough and Zoe Sugg)- I’m a huge Zoe Sugg aka Zoella fan and I’ve been wanting to read her cowritten mystery novel that came out during the pandemic. There are two female protagonists (Ivy and Audrey) who bond over solving a crime at their boarding school, Illumen Hall. While this book ends in a cliff hanger, there is a sequel that has already been released that I’ll have to read next!

Cover Story (by Susan Rigetti)- Inspired by the true story (and Netflix series!) of fake heiress Anna Delvey, Cover Story follows a very similar plotline about a fake heiress turned wannabe writer named Cat Wolff. and a young equally wannabe writer named Lora Ricci Only, there is a huge plot twist at the end- one you won’t see coming at all and will make you google because it’s such a confusing shock!

Nora Goes Off Script (by Annabel Monaghan)- I read this as part of a book club, but I’m so glad I did because I loved discovering another rom com author! A relatively short romance novel about a super cute couple- a Hallmark channel movie screenwriter and a Hollywood movie star- what could be cuter? It was the perfect read to kick off summer!

All Good People (by Ashley Flowers)- OMG my favorite podcaster of the BEST podcast, Crime Junkies, has written a book! Its obviously a whodunnit mystery with twists and turns and an ending that was pretty hard to guess. Although I’m sure Flowers used her crime podcasting expertise to write this novel, I was actually disappointed with the outcome. The book lacked…. excitement to put it bluntly. I’m not sure if its because Flowers knows the reality of committing and solving crimes or if her experience with actual mysteries made her want to stick as close to real life possibilities, but All Good People was far from the well written suspense novel.

The Magpie Society: Two for Joy (by Amy McCullough and Zoe Sugg)- The sequel to One for Sorrow picks up right where the first book left off- with a missing Chloe and students turned detectives Ivy and Audrey determined to find former student Lola’s killer. This young adults mystery was a solid read with an ending you definitely won’t see coming and leave you closing the book with your mouth open.

Local Woman Missing (by Mary Kubica)- 3 women have gone missing over the years in a small town. No one knows why. Until one of the missing women reappears years later. Or has she? Told from multiple points of view, I could never predict where this book was headed. The plot was so unpredictable that I literally couldn’t put it down until I was finished.

Kill Joy (by Holly Jackson)- Jackson is the author of the popular Good Girl’s Guide to Murder trilogy so when she came out with this novella (its super short!) I quiclky borrowed it from the library. However, I was shocked at how dark and twisted the story was. But regardless of how scared I was reading it (and yes I was mostly terrified the entire time), I couldn’t stop reading. It was addicting! Told over the period of one night, a group of teenagers encounters a dangerous situation while on a cross country road trip. What happens over that one night will leave you unable to sleep- warning do not read at night!

Happy Place (by Emily Henry)- Emily Henry is one of my favorite authors- she’s written some of the loveliest rom com books and I love reading them. Happy Place is about a newly broken up couple that has to survive a vacation weekend in Maine with their closest group of friends who don’t know that they’ve broken up. But instead of having a miserable time, they end up learning more about each other (and themselves), even more than they’d learned during the course of their 10 year relationship. I loved reading about how a couple overcomes its adversities and how real life friendships evolve.

The Club (by Ellery Lloyd)- Another Reese Witherspoon book club pick, The Club is about a business of luxury hotels located around the world all named Homes. All headed by an erratic CEO named Nick. The book is told from the perspective of different Club employees over the course of a weekend where the newest Hlub is opening- Island Home. The mystery is slowly revealed as the book progresses and wraps up nicely in the end.

I Love it When You Lie (by Kristen Bird)- I read Kristen’s debut novel last year (and had the chance to meet her at a reading as well!) and wanted to continue supporting a local Houston author so I read her newest mystery novel right when it released this spring. Any story involving a pastor’s wife, a doctor’s wife, and a professor’s mistress has my interest peaked- and upon further investigation, finding out that they are sisters, I knew it was going to be a good story.

The Soulmate (by Sally Hepworth)- Is your soulmate who you really think they are? Or have you been blinded by love? This book addresses that question over and over again throughout the course of the plot as a family who lives near the edge of a suicide cliff witnesses a woman fall over to her death below. But was it really just a suicide? Or was there more to the story? Obviously there’s more or this wouldn’t be a Sally Hepworth thriller novel, but you’ll just have to read to find out!

The Darkest Corners (by Kara Thomas)- 6 years ago, two best friends , Callie and Tessa, testified to put a murderer in jail. A murderer who killed multiple women, including Callie’s cousin.. Now 6 years later, Tessa is back in town sorting through her old affairs and discovering that the past may not always be what it seems. 2 girls are now tasked with finding out what really happened- its another wild but great ride with Kara Thomas!

The Turnout (by Megan Abbott)- I heard that Megan Abbott is a popular suspense writer who loves to write thrillers about dance and gymnastics so I thought I would try one of her books. The Turnout is about two sisters who own a children’s ballet studio that is readying for the Nutcracker season when a mysterious contractor enters their lives and all kinds of interesting situations start occurring, upending the sisters’ lives.

Unfortunately Yours (by Tessa Bailey)- After a period of reading dark suspense thrillers, it was nice to take a break and enter the romantic comedy world for a bit. Tessa Bailey has written so many popular novels, but this was my first time reading one of her books- And it won’t be my last! I loved her lighthearted writing and the cute story about a rich girl from a winery family meets newcomer ex Navy Seal. Because who doesn’t love laughs and wine? Their love story was so emotional (in a light hearted way) at times and so darn adorable at other times. I can’t wait to read another Tessa Bailey book!

The Vacationers (by Emma Straub)- I was heading on vacation to Sweden when I first started reading The Vacationers and felt that it was really the most fitting vacation read (duh the title!) because the Post family is headed to Mallorca, Spain while I headed to the Stockholm for a week of adventures. Although, I have to say, luckily my vacation fared better than the Post family’s, whose vacation was marred by family secrets and broken relationships.

Vera Wong’s Unsolicited Advice for Murderers (by Jesse Q, Sutanto)- The cutest murder mystery I’ve ever read! Never thought I would put those words in the same sentence, but its completely true, Vera Wong, senior San Francisco tea shop owner and amateur sleuth, is the most adorable protagonist to ever grace a novel. It’s also the most heartwarming novel ever as Vera manages to create a whole new family of friends out of solving the mystery of a random man dying in her tea shop.

The House in the Pines (by Ana Reyes)- Another Reese Witherspoon book club pick and I have to say she definitely knows what people like to read! This thriller is about a girl who is not only trying to solve the mysterious death of her best friend, but also doing so while no one believes her that a murder has even occurred. The story is told through the protagonist’s point of view in two different timelines- one from when she was younger (when her best friend was killed) and then again from 6 years later when she is trying to solve this mystery. The chapters are not labeled which timeline is being told so it did take a few chapters to get familiar with what was going on, but once I got a grasp on the story, it was a really interesting and different story.

Loveboat Reunion (by Abigail Hing Wen)- I' read the first book in this series in 2020 right when Covid began and couldn’t get over how cute the Asian American love story between a dance loving Ever and a strong loyal Rick. This sequel tells the story of the first book’s side characters, Sophie and Xavier. It’s just as cute and just as emotional (in a teen love story type way) as the first book. I stayed up all night to binge read it because it was too enjoyable to put down!

In a Dark, Dark Wood (by Ruth Ware)- I loved Ware’s book, It Girl, and wanted to read another one of her novels when I could. Well, 20 weeks later (thanks public library…) I was finally able to! I’ve been to so many bachelorette parties over the years and while all of them were so much fun, I knew that there had to be some parties out there that had dark turns so I was really interested in seeing how Nora’s attendance at her former best friend Clare’s bachelorette party would turn out. In true Ruth Ware style, this murder mystery is filled with a fascinating cast of characters and tons of false leads and a surprising ending.

Bad Things Happen Here (by Rebecca Barrow)- Women in a supposedly idyllic island town keep disappearing over the years, including the protagonist’s own older sister, prompting the protagonist, Luca, to begin her own investigation. I felt that this book utilized the overused trope of teen investigator to fuel its story line, resulting in a mediocre plot and a not so great ending.

Fix Her Up (by Tessa Bailey)- This adorable romance story about the youngest Castle sibling falling in love with a baseball player recently out of the game made me tear up so many times! I chose this book on a whim and didn’t expect the author to be so good aka sappy and I’m definitely here for it. I liked this book so much I decided to read its sequel (Tools of Engagement) as well.

What Lies in the Woods (by Kate Alice Marshall)- 3 girls go into a mysterious forest to play an imagined game and only 2 returned unscathed. The third is Naomi- who is stabbed 17 times and barely survives. No one except Cassidy, Olivia, and Naomi know what truly happened in the woods that day and Naomi is even hazy on those facts. As Naomi is brought back to the past due to another tragic event, she realizes that all is not what it would appear. I was so shocked by all the turns this book made and the relationship between not only the 3 best friends, but also the other people in their town. Just goes to show you can trust no one!

The Only Survivors (by Megan Miranda)- What if you and your classmates were involved in a tragic accident claiming the lives of several other classmates? How would you continue to live? How would you face the other survivors? How would you keep each other safe. The Only Survivors answers all these questions and tells the story of a group of students who go on to live and question their reality a decade after they survived their field trip buses falling into a rushing river. I was hooked by the premise and felt pulled into each survivor’s story and experiences.

The Writing Retreat (by Julia Bartz)- I’ve discovered this year that I really enjoy stories that involve a cast of different characters (usually a family or group of friends) instead of just 1-2 main characters. The Writing Retreat brings together 5 young women (novice writers) at a mysterious retreat hosted by an acclaimed author at her private estate and every single woman present at this retreat is not who she claims to be. And not everyone survives.

Georgie, All Along (by Kate Clayborn)- I discovered Kate Clayborn when a book club I occasionally join chose this book as their October read. A cute rom com novel, Georgie All Along is about a big city personal assistant turned unemployed small town girl who runs into her town’s former bad boy in her parents home due to a mix up in communication about a living situation. What ensues is a story about two people who come together and make each other a better version of themselves. Its as cheesy as it gets but this feel good book is sure to make you believe in true love again.

Tools of Engagement (by Tessa Bailey)- The much needed sequel to Fix Her Up revolves around the middle Castle sibling and her quest to find herself and her new man! Just as cute and sappy as its prequel, Tools of Engagement made me so happy reading it. I was so happy to live in world of happy endings and true love once again.

The Last Word (by Taylor Adams)- This book delved into a worst nightmare situation by bringing to life the story of a reader who writes a one star review of a murder mystery book she read, only to find out later that night that she is actually the subject of the author’s next murder mystery novel. As a punishment for the one star review. Its horrifying! And it makes me want to never write another review! The ending was shocking and honestly a little confusing due to the many last minute twists the author decided to throw in.

Portrait of a Thief (by Grace D. Li)- The author of Portrait of a Thief grew up just 30 minutes from my childhood home and is a fellow female Asian American so I knew I had to support her debut novel. It took me a while to get around to it, but the plot of a ring of Asian American college students who travel around the world with the goal of stealing ancient artifacts from museums that originally belonged to China seemed interesting. The premise that museums from many Western countries have proudly displayed artifacts that they took illegally during wars or colonization and now refuse to return is a theme that remains an ethical dilemma today, I also found the characters desire to “be” Chinese, but at the same time reckoning with the fact that they will never “belong” to China and are undenaibly Asian American so relatable.

The Spare Room (by Andrea Bartz)- This book was not what I was expecting at all. I thought I was reading a run of the mill thriller, but I had no idea what I was actually going to be reading. The Spare Room solved a murder mystery, but it also detailed a mental health scandal, manipulative characters, and a graphic threesome affair. It wasn’t really my cup of tea, but I did discover at the end that the author is actually Julia Bartz’s (author of The Writing Retreat) sister.

Death by Dumpling (by Vivien Chien)- An Asian American mystery involving dumplings? A must read! What is better than food and mysteries? Although the plot was somewhat predictable (hint: there is a love interest too!), I still enjoyed diving into the world of a Chinese restaurant in a suburb Chinatown plaza and helping amateur sleuth Lana Lee find out who killed the plaza’s owner by poisoning his dumplings. There is a huge array of characters, many of whom barely escape suspicion, and lots of yummy food involved! The best thing about this book is that it is actually the first in a series of murder mysteries starring Lana Lee so I’m going to have so much reading to do next year.

Reading 52 books this year took me quite a long time! But I’m still so glad that I’m able to commit to this number year after year. My reading has developed since I first started this goal of 52 books in a year in 2020 and my love for books has reignited and become a passion in my life once again. I read EVERYWHERE this year (as I’m sure is evidenced by the photos above). From cafes to airplanes to mani pedi appointments to solo lunches, my Kindle has been on quite the adventure with me throughout the year. I’ve found that reading can be a great companion and also a great way to fill those gaps during the day when I just need a break. After hitting my goal of 52 books, I realized I still had about a month left of 2023 so I decided to finish out the year with a few more bonus books- see below!

The Summer of Broken Rules (by K.L. Walther)- This book was advertised as having been inspired by the lyrics of Taylor Swift songs so I knew it would be the perfect ending to 2023 because Taylor defined 2023. From attending her epic Eras tour in April to watching her almost 3 hour concert movie in theaters in October, I knew that I had to continue my Swiftie life by reading a book inspired by her songs. Main character, Meredith, is returning to her family’s annual summer vacation Martha’s Vineyard after a 2 year hiatus due to the death of her older sister, Claire. She’s returning to help celebrate her cousin’s wedding and conquer a cutthroat game of Assasins in her sister’s honor, but along the way she learns how to properly grieve, how to find herself, and meets a cute buy (obviously named Stephen from Swift’s famous song Hey Stephen).

All the Dangerous Things (by Stacy Willingham)- In preparation for attending this author’s book signing in January I decided to catch up on her previous books. I read A Flicker in the Dark last year and found it to be immensely shocking and suspenseful so I knew All the Dangerous Things would have equally shocking twists and turns. And sure enough, the plot kept me guessing until the very end- I didn’t see the ending coming at all! The protagonist’s son has been missing for over a year now and she’s desperate to find hime- even if it means digging into her own mysterious past and evaluating her traumatic childhood, scandalous marriage, and sleepwalking disorder.

Hotel of Secrets (by Diana Biller)- Over the years I’ve gotten more and more into historical fiction and Hotel of Secrets was the perfect book because it involves mystery, romance, and it takes place in the late 1800’s Vienna. It was so interesting reading a story set in Vienna because I’ve seen in person how grand the city looks and I can only imagine how beautiful it would have looked before any world wars. Hotel of Secrets is about a female protagonist attempting to bring back to life her family’s dilapidated hotel while dealing with attempts on her life.

The Night in Question (by Kathleen Glasgow, Liz Lawson)- I’ve been nursing a cold and hoarse voice for a few days (I know, horrible timing to be sick around the holidays) and had tons of time available for reading so I thought I would crack open a few more books I wasn’t able to get to this year yet/ I loved the first book in this series about 2 teenage girls who are super fans of Agatha Christie and emulate her by solving crimes in their local community. The second book solves a completely new crime (there is seriously a lot of terrible people in this little California town…) with the same old cast of characters. Another member of The Mains becomes the victim of a crime and its up to Alice Olgivie and her new found friend Iris Adams to find out who did it- in true Agatha fashion!

Paper Names (by Susie Luo)- I saw this book in a local bookstore and went home immediately to find it on my library app to read on my Kindle. I spent the last days of 2023 recovering from a cold and finishing up my last book. Paper Names evoked so many emotions in me as it told the story of a Chinese American immigrant family creating a life for themselves in New York. The story is told from 3 different perspectives- a father, a daughter, and their white family friend- which provided a birds eye view into the relationship between a father struggling to stabilize a home in his new country and a daughter who is caught between two worlds and trying to assimilate while finding out who she really is. I loved this book and it was truly a great way to end 2023.

And that’s a wrap for 2023! See you next year!

A 3rd Year of Books: 52 Books in 52 Weeks

My reading momentum died during last summer’s post vaccination craze and I went months without even thinking about books. It wasn’t until my mom bought me a Kindle as a gift that I renewed my passion for reading. Reading in 2022 became so much easier thanks to my Kindle (I have no idea why I was holding out for physical books) because I was able to access books at anytime at any place. I could read on the beach in Galveston or in a cafe in Oslo or on the plane to a work trip in Seattle. The ease of access helped me become more settled in my reading routine this year and I was able to easily complete 52 (plus!) books.

The Flip Side (by James Bailey)- I decided to start off 2022 with a lighthearted hilarious novel about a man whose failed marriage proposal (atop the London Eye no less) leads him to leave his life decisions up to the flip of a coin. He’ll do whatever the coin tells him to do- which introduces him to all kinds of trouble, adventure, and most importantly, love. The book has a happy ending and puts every reader in a great mood.

The Rose Code (by Kate Quinn)- My book club’s first pick of 2022 was my choice for a historical fiction and I was so excited to read The Rose Code. The book didn’t disappoint! I was so wrapped up in the intrigue and history and drama of the World War II British codebreakers that I would spend hours reading a day until I finished. There are 3 heroines whose stories are at the forefront of the story and their stories are told from their perspectives in alternating fashion. The chapters also alternate between present day and the past. It takes some close reading to connect the dots, but I loved the mystery of it all and the very exciting ending.

Ghosts (by Dolly Alderton)- The MOST relatable book ever. The way the author describes the attitudes of single versus married friends as well as app dating is spot on. I found myself agreeing with so many conversations that went on in the book and felt so validated that I wasn’t the only person noticing these things. This book is for any modern day woman navigating the dating field!

So We Meet Again (by Suzanne Park)- Love stories with Asian American leads are few and far between (although its definitely trending upwards so that’s good news!) so when my Kindle recommended this book to me, I knew I had to give it a chance. Its definitely a lighthearted book that makes you feel carefree and happy so don’t expect the next Gone With The Wind, but its worth a quick read because it puts you in a great mood.

The Bookshop on the Corner (by Jenny Colgan)- A cute story about a British girl who moves to the Scottish countryside, rents a giant van and turns it into an adorable book store, falls in love with a rugged Scottish man, and realizes that life is what you make of it and dreams are worth chasing after. This book made me want to move to the middle of nowhere and open a tiny little book shop too!

Without a Hitch (by Mary Hollis Huddleston)- Growing up, my dream career was to become a fabulous wedding planner and this book helped me relive my love for weddings (and also reminded me of all the drama and reasons why I ended up not going down that career route…). Set in Dallas, Texas, Without a Hitch is filled with a twentysomething girl who is just trying to figure out her life (life can definitely be confusing sometimes, trust me I know!) and become someone she can be proud of.

Royal Holiday (by Jasmine Guillory)- I’ve read Jasmine Guillory’s books in the past because they’ve been part of Reese Witherspoon’s book club, but could never get into her love stories. Royal Holiday, with its love line of an older woman meeting the man of her dreams while visiting the Queen’s country home in England, still didn’t end up anywhere near my list of favorite books. But it was a cute story with a happy ending so a great stress reliever read!

A Good Girl’s Guide to Murder (by Holly Jackson)- After reading a few slower paced books, I was really looking forward into getting a murder mystery and A Good Girl’s Guide to Murder is the perfect mix of mystery and young adult drama. I found it so fascinating and could not put the book down. The book’s premise is built on a high school student attempting to solve a murder that has bogged down her Connecticut town where the previously accused killer committed suicide resulting in the murder never really being closed. The book is actually the first in a trilogy and I can’t wait to read the remaining 3 books.

Beautiful World, Where Are You (by Sally Rooney)- Rooney’s Normal People became a worldwide phenomenon so when her sophomore novel came out, I knew I had to read it. As with Normal People, this book takes a bit of deep thinking to understand its many nuances and its plot. I love how Rooney crafts a beautiful story about friendships and romance and the relationships between humans.

Love and Gelato (by Jenna Evans Welch)- Romance, Italy, and gelato- what can get better than that in a novel? I headed off to San Francisco for a action packed 2 weeks of remote work/adventuring/reuniting with friends and knew I wanted to read something equally as adventurous and fun along the way. I loved Welch’s story about a girl who starts a new life in the Florence countryside with her newly discovered father and a whole gang of new friends.And the best part is the author has written many more books in the same series so there is many more romance and fun to be had!

Nice Girls (by Catherine Dang)- I’ve been into suspense novels recently (if you can’t tell by now!) and really enjoyed reading about how the protagonist of Nice Girls’, Mary, who from all appearances is sort of a loser, solves a local crime that involves local missing girls. There are a few parts of the story line that seem to drag on, but Dang wraps up the ending nicely and its a pretty satisfying read.

The Maid (by Nita Prose)- And the suspense novels continue! The Maid was highly recommended to me and it did not disappoint. If you loved Eleanor Oliphant as I did, you’ll love reading about Molly Gray aka Molly the Maid and her life working at a prestigious hotel and getting wrapped into a murder mystery. Molly presents as a neurodivergent woman and I loved reading about her thought process and what it means to be neurodivergent.

LA Weather (by Maria Amparo Escandon)- I wasn’t sure what to expect from LA Weather because other than being on Reese Witherspoon’s book club list, I didn’t know anything else about it. But it was nice to read a different type of genre from my usual murder mystery or romance. In fact, I was so interested in reading about the Alvarado family and all their drama that I could not put the book down until the end!

Last Girl Ghosted (by Lisa Ungar)- This book is definitely not what I thought it would be about based on the title…. I thought it would be a creepy story about a girl who stalks a guy who ghosted her after a few dates. But, instead it is a very deep and kind of scary book about a girl with a traumatic past who gets involved with a very scary man (no spoilers so that’s all I’m going to say on that). There were many twists and turns and the book is pretty heavy…

Malibu Rising (by Taylor Jenkins Reid)- After skipping my books club’s February read, I was excited to dive into the March book, Malibu Rising, especially because I love anything written by Taylor Jenkins Reid. I love a good story about siblings and their unwavering loyalty towards each other and Malibu Rising is just that. Nina, Jay, Hud, and Kit have been on their own since childhood and this book details their strength, their growth, and their stories.

The Cheerleaders (by Kara Thomas)- One year, Five dead cheerleaders. That’s the premise of Thomas’ The Cheerleaders, a whodunit mystery novel about the string of cheerleader deaths that has plagued a small town. Monica, the novel’s protagonist, is adamant in finding out whether or not her sister (the last cheerleader to die) actually committed suicide and to confirm the truth behind the deaths of the other four cheerleaders. Her search for the truth is broken up in the novel by flashbacks to her sister’s Jen’s version of events, which provides a fascinating insight into the mysterious deaths. The book is artfully written with plenty of subtext and hints without actually word for word revealing plot lines,

Reckless Girls (by Rachel Hawkins)- Lux is a twentysomething woman who resides in Hawaii with her boyfriend of one year and embarks on the journey of a lifetime aboard her boyfriend’s boat to a mysterious island with a dark history where survival is only meant for the strongest. During her journey she is joined by two other women and mets a handful of other people along the way- all of whom are not who they appear to be. While Lux remains the protagonist of the book, the chapters are told from the different perspectives of some of the other characters, thus revealing the book’s secrets page by page. It’s a book that will leave you guessing until the end!

You’ll Be the Death of Me (by Karen McManus)- One of my favorite YA mystery writers came out with her newest books so I knew I had to read it right away! Like her other books, You’ll Be the Death of Me tells the story of a group of high school friends who get tangled up in a crime that they then have to solve in order to prove their innocence. And like always, the ending is one you’ll never see coming!

Little Threats (by Emily Schultz)- Little Threats is as dark and sad as they come, but the suspense is throughly written and worth the read. Kennedy and Carter (yes they are named after presidents) are twins who lived a privileged life until Kennedy is convicted of a murder she does not remember committing. As she is released from prison after 14 years, she attempts to reenter a world that has moved on without her while mending her relationship with her twin and desperately trying to remember the actual truth that resulted in her conviction. I was shocked at the ending, but the author did a great job leaving the crumbs leading me there.

My Not So Perfect Life (by Sophie Kinsella)- Recovering from Lasik eye surgery has been taking a bit longer than I expected and the slightly blurry vision has definitely put a damper on my reading plan so I had to resort to other measures. Aka audiobooks. I haven’t been a huge fan of audiobooks because of how quickly they are read and how easy it can be to lose focus and miss a part of the book, but since I really had no other options I thought I would give it a shot. Sophie Kinsella’s latest romantic comedy novel was filled with relatable funny quirks and when read by a British actress, the story truly came to life. I loved listening about a twenty something small town girl trying to make it in the big city!

Wedding Night (by Sophie Kinsella)- Desperate for another funny light hearted rom com read in a posh British voice, I chose another random Sophie Kinsella audiobook to listen to as continue to recover from lasik surgery. However, Wedding Night was nothing like My Not So Perfect Life (aside from the yes equally posh British voice). Majority of the book was about the sexual tension between two people who were desperate to do the deed, but having their efforts continuously thwarted by the protagonists’ well meaning but meddling sister. It was overall a silly novel and not at all funny- but yes a great way for an person who can;t watch tb or drive or do basically anything to pass time.

You' Can’t Be Serious (by Kal Penn)- I went to hear Kal Penn speak at a Texas Asia Society event a few months ago and was so fascinated by his story (and his jokes!) that I decided to borrow his audiobook and spend another week of lasik recovery listening to his memoir. I love listening to audiobooks read by the celebrity themselves and learning about their story through they own words and voice. Kal’s story was equally funny as it was interesting and was worth the listen.

Run Rose Run (by James Patterson and Dolly Parton)- Um Dolly Parton wrote a book?? I obviously had to read it! James Patterson is an author known for scary thrillers so I was expecting a country themed murder mystery with a ton of twists and turns. But Run Rose Rose focuses more on a young girl (albeit with a mysterious past) turning a leaf in her broken past and becoming a huge country music superstar and just sprinkles in a little bit of thriller.

The Paris Apartment (by Lucy Foley)- Another Lucy Foley novel means another week holed up in my apartment engrossed in the latest artfully crafted thriller. The Paris Apartment sounds like it would be about a beautiful adventure in Paris, but its in fact the opposite… A girl arrives in Paris looking for her older brother and winds up involved in the mystery of a lifetime- its definitely one of the best books I’ve read this year!

Good Girl, Bad Blood (by Holly Jackson)- I was hooked to the first book of the A Good Girl’s Guide to Murder series and could not wait to read the sequel (there’s also a third book!). The sequel solves a completely unrelated, but equally interesting mystery and presents the same lovable characters as the first book.

They All Fall Down (by Roxanne St Clair)- I just can’t stop reading suspense thrillers and mysteries- They All Fall Down fits that genre to a tee. The book is about girls on a “hottie list” (yes I know…) who are dying one by one. The locals think its a curse, but could there be something more sinister going on behind the scenes? You have to read this book to find out!

That Weekend (by Kara Thomas)- Told from main character Claire’s perspective (until the end when the perspective switches around), That Weekend brings you down a rabbit hole of missing persons, complicated high school romances, and lost memories. This book had so many twists and turns, I honestly had no idea what was going on until the end, but I just couldn’t put it down!

Verity (by Colleen Hoover)- Colleen Hoover’s books have been all over social media lately and I’ve been so curious about the intense attraction to them so I picked up Verity on the suggestion of a few friends. Verity is about an unknown author who is tasked with finishing a popular book series when the author goes into a coma. But the twists come when the author comes across something she shouldn’t and what she finds brings her down a spiral. Verity is so well written- filled with enough suspense and darkness to keep you up at night. I can’t wait to read another Colleen Hoover book now!

Love at First Spite (by Anna Collins)- After a few thriller novels, I was ready for a cute love story and Love at First Spite made me feel like I was reading something out of a Korean drama! I love stories where the two protagonists despise each other at first without knowing that they are each other’s soulmates and destined to fall in love. Love at First Spite also mixes in interior design and architecture (the female protagonist is building a house!) with the adorable romantic comedy so what can be better!

The Ivies (by Alexa Donne)- I’ve been gravitating towards a lot young adult mysteries lately and The Ivies fits right in that genre. Telling the story of a group of high school girls who call themselves The Ivies as they work (or should I say scheme) towards obtaining admission into the prestigious Ivy Leage colleges, the book brings the reader on a journey of friendship, greed, and betrayal (the best combination when it comes to a murder mystery).

The Night Shift (by Alex Finlay)- 15 years ago, 4 video store employees were brutally murdered at during their shift and the murderer was never caught, Now in the present, an eerily similar murder at a local ice cream shop occurs where the shop’s 3 young employees are killed. Both murders have one thing in common- there is one survivor left alive. With a premise like this, The Night Shift hooked me right in and left me unable to put down.

A Flicker in the Dark (by Stacy Willingham)- This book was SO suspenseful and the ending was SO shocking. I had so much sympathy for the story’s main character who grew up to be a psychologist under the heaviness of her father’s murder conviction for 6 local girls when she was a child. This book has been selected for a limited tv series starring Emma Stone so hopefully the thriller will play out before our eyes soon.

The Nightingale (by Kristin Hannah)- Every time I open a historical fiction novel about WWII I know that tears are bound to fall and that the story is going to be filled with emotion. Earlier this year I read the Rose Code which is about Britain’s involvement in the War, but this book tells the story of non Jewish French women living in the countryside, which I thought was a unique perspective and brought about experiences I had never learned of before.

As Good as Dead (by Holly Jackson)- This New York Times bestselling trilogy is finally complete with the release of As Good as Dead and while I’m sad that I won’t be reading about the crime solving Pip anymore, I’m glad I was able to follow along for one finale mystery.

The Roughest Draft (by Emily Wibberley)- I decided to take a break for a string of thrillers I’d been reading to crack open this romance story about 2 authors who were formally romantically involved but have since had a major falling out and are currently being forced to work together to create the next big novel. The book’s premise seemed super cute, but in reality the story line was slightly convoluted and the “big” secret that was the reason why the couple broke up turned out to not be that dramatic.

Counterfeit (by Kirsten Chen)- I was on the fence about reading a book about Chinese counterfeit goods because I feel like Asians always get criticized regarding fake luxury bags and in the end I should have trusted my instincts because this book wasn’t the most interesting. The story of two Asian women who buy and sell counterfeit products from China was full of international trips and relationship ups and downs.

The Night She Went Missing (by Kristen Bird)- Kristen Bird is a Houston based author and I was so happy to be able to support a local female first time author by reading her debut novel. The Night She Went Missing tells the mysterious story of a Galveston girl who vanishes under mysterious circumstances and is told from the perspective of multiple people in her life.

Book Lovers (by Emily Henry)- I love Emily Henry and her latest book did not disappoint. I love the idea of having a staycation in a quaint little town mentioned in a book because I’ve always wished the cute towns in Susan Mallery books actually existed in this world. How wonderful would it be to wander through a peaceful town with white picket fences and cafes and bookstores and meet the ideal man?

How to Fail at Flirting (by Denise Williams)- A cute love story about a professor and her boss set in a university that addresses real issues faced by women in the academic world. I found this book to be a funny romance, but also emotional at times.

Greenwich Park (by Kathleen Faulkner)- When you mix money, privilege, complicated family relationships, mysterious friends, and dark pasts together, you get Greenwich Park. I didn’t read the synopsis of Greenwich Park prior to reading it so I had no idea what to expect and found the book’s suspenseful storyline to be quite interesting.

The Agathas (by Kathleen Glasgow)- I love Agatha Christie, the original female sleuth, and loved reading a story about 2 girls who idolized Agatha as well. Alice and Iris, strangers at school, but tutor and pupil after school, join forces to help solve the case of the disappearance of Alice’s missing ex best friend, Brooke. No one know where Brooke has gone, but they can’t help draw comparisons to Alice’s own mysterious 5 day disappearance the year prior.

The Spanish Love Deception (by Elena Armas)- The waitlist for this book was so long I wasn’t sure I was going to even be able to read it this year. But the library waitlist gods smiled down on me and I was able to read about the most adorable love story between a Spanish American girl and her rude (but hot) colleague. The book is set in New York and Spain- two beautiful places! Its a typical story of hate and misunderstanding that turns into love, but I love cheesy love stories so to me, this was the perfect novel.

The Boardwalk Bookshop (by Susan Mallery)- 3 women’s stories come together in The Boardwalk Bookshop as they become business partners in sharing a charming storefront on a beach boardwalk. From strangers to partners to friends, Bree, Ashley, and Mikki are navigating life together and discovering more about themselves everyday.

Apples Never Fall (by Liane Moriarty)- 4 siblings must decide what to do after their mother goes missing and their father appears to be a likely suspect while also dealing with the appearance and disappearance of a mysterious woman who had woven herself in their lives with shady motives. Liane Moriarty is a master in storytelling and crafted a intricate suspense novel about a family who pull out each other’s dark secrets during a turning point in their life.

Mr Wrong Number (by Lynn Painter)- What would you do if you received a text meant for someone else? Would you keep the conversation going? Would you form an anonymous relationship that that person? Olivia accidentally unknowingly texts her brother’s best friend one night and the two embark on the relationship of their life. The story is one of those that could never happen in real life but is the cutest idea ever.

It Ends with Us (by Colleen Hoover)- Colleen Hoover has become the booktok queen, rising from obscurity (she’s been an active writer for years) to modern day fame and her most highly praised novel is It Ends with Us. What is seemingly a fairytale come true love story evolves into a deeper discussion about families and loyalties and abuse. There will be a sequel released later this year that picks up right where the book ends.

Olga Dies Dreaming (by Xochitl Gonzalez)- I recently joined a local Houston girls bookclub and one of the first books I read was Olga Dies Dreaming in honor of Hispanic Heritage Month. A Puerto Rican New Yorker, Olga, has to rethink what her American dream is while dealing with her complicated family and equally complicated love life. I learned so much about the political and economic issues affecting Puerto Rico and was so grateful to have read this novel this year.

Black Cake (by Charmaine Wilkerson)- Through the inheritance of a legendary family black cake recipe, siblings Eleanor and Bennett are able to gain a deeper understanding of their recently deceased mother and her life in their island homeland. The siblings uncover family secrets and learn about their mother’s complicated past and the importance of black cake. The book also includes a black cake recipe so that the reader can make their own black cake at home.

The Lifeguards (by Amanda Eyre Ward)- Set in the Barton Creek neighborhood of Austin (an area I frequented a lot during my college years and where some of my friends still live), the story of mother son relationships, privilege and wealth, new beginnings, and murder come to life.

Lessons in Chemistry (by Bonnie Garmus)- I’m not sure when this book became so popular but once I started reading, I realized that everyone else was reading as well and the book was even named Barnes and Nobles’ book of the year. The storyline is set in the 1960s, a time when it wasn’t common for women to work outside the home, much less be single mothers. But yet, Elizabeth Zott, a brilliant chemist, accomplishes all that all while challenging the status quo.

For Your Own Good (by Samantha Downing)- Recommended to me by author Kristen Bird (The Night She Went Missing), For Your Own Good is told from several teachers and students of a prestigious private school’s point of view and is one of the best murder mysteries I read this year.

Booked on a Feeling (by Jayci Lee)- I love a solid romance story led by Asian American (in this case Korean American) protagonists thought Booked on a Feeling was the perfect cozy rainy day read. Lizzy is a perfectionist lawyer who loves books and bookstores, while Jack is her best friend who is about to embark on a brand new career away from the family brewery business. Its a great mix of personality for a cute romance.

The Case of the Left Handed Lady (by Nancy Springer)- I loved the Enola Holmes movies on Netflix and was pleasantly surprised to discover that the movies are actually based on a series of books with the same protagonist. I randomly chose a book in the series to read and soon came to the conclusion that Enola is definitely more charming in the movies than in the book, but still finished my journey with crime solving with Enola.

The Younger Wife (by Sally Hepworth)- Ended 2022 with a bang (or a thrill really) and finished reading a great suspense novel. The Younger Wife starts off like a typical story about a much younger beautiful woman becoming the wife of a much older man to the dismay of his two adult daughters (who have just committed their own mother to a hospital due to her progressive Alzheimer’s). But things are not always what they seem and that’s all I will say about it!

And that’s all for 2022! Some of my favorite reads this year included The Rose Code, The Cheerleaders, and Book Lovers. See you in 2023!

A 2nd Year of Books: 52 Books in 52 Weeks

After reading over 52 books in 2020, I’m inspired to continue the same goal for 2021. I never thought I could read that many books in a year (although I do admit the pandemic did actually help me a lot since I was unable to go out and travel), but this year I’m confident that I can repeat that number. I’ve been doing a lot of research on book inspiration for the new year and I’ve been excited to start compiling my list of to- reads. However, I quickly discovered that it was so much harder this time around because I wasn’t being forced to stay home due to a world wide pandemic. Instead, reading competed with my normal hobbies and interests like traveling and dining out. I wasn’t able to read book after book week after week. Now, I had to set aside time in my schedule just to read! Somehow I got it done though- check out my list below!

The Fifth Avenue Story Society (by Rachel Hauck)- This NYC winter based novel seemed like the perfect choice to kick off this new year of reading. Ever since my December New York trip, I’ve been so nostalgic over how I use to spend cozy winters in the city. This book let me relive my glory days for a few pages! The plot follows 5 New Yorkers as they gather for a secret literary society that each was anonymously invited to and while It isn’t the best book I’ve read or the book with the most riveting story line, it is a solid read to ring in the new year in upbeat spirits. The book starts off slow, but picks up towards the end and is such a heartwarming story!

Dear Edward (by Ann Napolitano)- This book has been on my list for a while now ever since Jenna Bush Hager chose it as part of her book club, Read with Jenna. I was hesitant about picking up for weeks though because the premise of the story (a young boy who loses his entire family in a commercial plane crash as he is the sole survivor from the flight) seemed immensely sad and emotional. However, Dear Edward proved to be so inspirational and thoughtful. The book was a wealth of information on coping with unimaginable grief and insight into how a person who is dealing with intense grief reacts and survives. It is a testament to how strong humans are and the potential our lives have.

The Jetsetters (by Amanda Eyre Ward)- I started this book thinking that it was a lighthearted family about an estranged family that fixes their relationship through a once in a lifetime cruise vacation, but after really getting into it (because yes the story is very addicting!) I realized The Jetsetters was more than an innocent book about traveling. There were so many points in the story where I gasped out loud in surprise or had to wipe a tear from my eye- this book is about the strength of a family, overcoming difficulties, and mental health. I can see why Reese Witherspoon chose it for her book club!

The Flight Attendant (by Chris Bohjalian)- My book club’s first pick of the year was inspired by the new HBO show based on the book with the same name and the fact that we haven’t yet read a mystery novel. The suspense and mystery hits the reader from the beginning when the main character finds a dead body sleeping next to her within the first page of the book. As I read through the book, however, I felt like the author’s development of the character wasn’t great and often times I felt extremely frustrated at how silly or dumb she was. Maybe this was the author’s purpose? To create a heroine that readers disliked? I really wish I could have invited the author to my book club for discussion! Overall, the storyline and idea of the plot is great. However, I think the execution of said story could use some work. That ending though…. its a real shocker!

The Yellow House (by Sarah M. Broom)- As far as memoirs go, The Yellow House was well written. It vividly described the author’s life experiences before and after Katrina in New Orleans, her family’s lives in the Yellow House on Wilson Street in New Orleans East, and how her career choices and life choices were impacted by her childhood. I chose this book in honor of Black History Month and it was the perfect choice! The Yellow House is also on former President Obama’s 2019 book recommendations, which only indicates that it is a solid reading option.

The History of Love (by Nicole Krauss)- I thought this book would be perfect to read for the week leading up to Valentine’s Day because what is more fitting than a story about love? The History of Love was recommended to me by my friend, Vicky, and revolves around an older man who has extensive life stories about his time in Poland during WWII when Jews were being persecuted, his current life in New York City, his almost family, and most importantly, his loneliness. Simultaneously, there is the story of a girl named Alma whose life intertwines with the old man throughout the novel. The book is told from several of the characters’ perspectives and was confusing in the beginning. It is a slower read and tells a heartwarming story.

Concrete Rose (by Angie Thomas)- To close out February (similar to the way I started it) I wanted to read a book by an Black author in support of Black History Month. There are so many ways to support minorities and one way is by simply reading their stories and understanding their words. Last year I read Angie Thomas’ The Hate U Give and had my eyes opened. I learned so much of what it meant to be a young Black child growing up in modern day America. Thomas’ newest novel, Concrete Rose, is the prequel to The Hate U Give and is about the latter protagonist’s father when he was younger. While it doesn’t address a current events issue like The Hate U Give does, it does provide insight into the life of a young Black man and the many struggles and decisions he encounters.

Untamed (by Glennon Doyle)- Untamed was one of the most popular books of 2020 (Reese Witherspoon choose it for her book club and its received several rave reviews). The book is author, Glennon Doyle’s, most personal memoir and shares insights from her life and many personal challenges. The book is a hybrid between being a memoir and also a self help book. Several of Doyle’s personal stories lead to valid and interesting points of how to improve your life. I am always very iffy about self help books because reading them makes me feel like I’m somehow living an inadequate life and that there is something more I should be doing. So on that front, I wasn’t a big fan of Untamed. However, I did find her stories on different parts of her life (thoughts on Christianity, her divorce, her remarriage, her kids) very fascinating and on that front, I did like the book. My advice? Read Untamed for yourself and decide on your own!

Sex and Vanity (by Kevin Kwan)- February also marks Chinese New Year and the beginning of a fresh start in Asian culture. I thought it would be fitting to read a book written by an Asian author to share about Asian culture. Kevin Kwan is the author of the famous Crazy Rich Asians series and just came out with a new novel in 2020, Sex and Vanity. Sex and Vanity is your typical chick flick and is written in classic Crazy Rich Asian format with tons of prestigious references and hilarious footnotes ad of course, plenty of rich people. However, Sex and Vanity also addresses the self identification issue that many hapas (mixed asians) deal with everyday as a result of being caught between two cultures. It was a refreshing book from the serious memoirs I’ve been reading recently.

Hidden Valley Road (by Robert Kolker)- Oprah only adds a few books to her Book Club reads every year so anytime a book is added I have extremely high expectations of it. Hidden Valley Road, along with American Dirt (which I read last year), were chosen for her 2020 Book Club. Then, at the end of 2020, Barack Obama included the book as part of his “Best of 2020” lists so my expectations went even higher. It was a truly fascinating read that delved into how the lives of the 6 mentally ill brothers were impacted as well as how the remaining 6 siblings fare throughout all their family’s medical issues. Dispersed throughout the book are also stories of the scientists and medical professionals who interacted with the family. Parts of the book were too technical for my taste, but overall the book was pretty interesting.

The Cousins (by Karen McManus)- I have loved every single one of Karen McManus’ mystery novels and could not wait to read her latest story about a group of estranged cousins who have never met each other but come together to spend a summer with their mysterious grandmother. I don’t want to say more and give anything away, but this book is no different from McManus’ other books in that the ending is always a shocker!

You Have A Match (by Emma Lord)- Suggested by both Zoe Sugg and Reese Witherspoon, You Have A Match has made a splash on the young adult literary world in 2021. The book was inspired by the genetics testing product, 23andMe that has truly revolutionized the world. While I definitely felt slightly too old to be reading this book (it is perfect for someone in high school though!), it was an easy escape and a quick read that took my mind off life and kept me from binging Netflix shows for a few hours.

Small Great Things (by Jodi Picoult)- I have to say, I was hesitant about reading a Jodi Picoult book because they are always SO sad. But my book club chose Small Great Things for our March read so I decided to give it a go. Small Great Things is so relevant for the current times in that it discusses important topics like racism and discrimination and the consequences of those actions. The book was so addicting- I was so invested in Ruth’s fight against white supremacy and couldn’t wait throughout the entire book to find out the final answer. With Jodi Picoult as the author, you can honestly never tell which way the ending will go.

Group: How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life (by Christie Tate)- I have been reading so many memoirs and nonfictions lately, that I’m getting a little burned out! But Group was suggested by Reese Witherspoon and has a fascinating topic (the power of group therapy) so I thought I would check it out and make it my last memoir for a while. It was the most interesting read I’ve come across in a while- I had never really known what group therapy entailed prior to opening this book and the book’s contents not only educated me on the matter but turned me into a believer. Group therapy made such an impact on the author’s life- she states multiple times throughout the book that it in fact saved her life- that I’m curious to try it out for myself now. I love how books like these truly exemplify the magic of reading and how it can open up a whole new world.

The Midnight Library (by Matt Haig)- My book club’s April pick was Matt Haig (mental health champion author)’s latest novel and although I had never read anything written by Haig, I had come across many of his quotes and books across social media. The Midnight Library explores the concept of regrets and what if’s and comes to the conclusion that while there will always be regret in a person’s life, the most important thing is living that life and moving forward. The book really resonated with me because I’ve thought multiple times throughout my life how things could be different if I just chose a different path when making important decisions. And who doesn’t encounter thoughts like that?

Friends and Strangers (by J. Courtney Sullivan)- Friends and Strangers was part of the Read with Jenna (Good Morning America) book club and I have to say that I’m not really feeling her vibe in books anymore. I wasn’t sure what the purpose of this book was. The plot revolves around the relationship between a middle aged first time mother, Elisabeth, and her college aged babysitter, Samantha. The story is told from both characters’ point of views in alternating chapters. However, for a good half the book, the story was very high level and took forever to introduce the characters to each other. I felt like the author was taking her time to provide backstory on both women, but to me, it was just a slow moving book.

28 Summers (by Elin Hilderbrand)- I have been waiting patiently to read 28 Summers for almost a year because that’s how long it took to get the book from my local public library! I started out as #231 on the waitlist! But the book was worth the wait. 28 Summers tells the story of Mallory Blessing’s life, specifically her love life, over the course of (obviously) 28 summers. I thought the book was utterly romantic and somehow nostalgic (?), but not in the usual rom com way. I highly recommend checking it out because that waitlist isn’t long for a reason!

This Time Next Year (by Sophie Cousens)- I haven’t read a cute romance story in a while and loved This Time Next Year. Highly recommend if you’re looking for something fun and lighthearted to read to get your mind off real life!

The Charmed Wife (by Olga Grushin)- Written by a Russian American author (yay for diverse readings!), The Charmed Wife is a unique and wildly imaginative story about what happens to Cinderella after her marriage to Prince Charming. I love fairy tales and while The Charmed Wife proved to be the ultimate un-fairytale, I still loved that I went along for the ride!

Tokyo Ever After (by Emiko Jean)- Ever since I watched The Princess Diaries as a kid, I’ve been slightly obsessed with the idea that literally anyone could be a secret long lost princess of some foreign land. While that dream never came true for me (very sadly), I love that Emiko Jean made it come true for another Asian American (albeit a fictional one). Tokyo Ever After tells the story of a Japanese American girl who discovers that her father (whom she has actually never met) is actually the first born son of the current King of Japan. Before she knows it, the main character is thrust into the Japanese royal life and deals with growing up, love, betrayal, and friendship. This book isn’t meant to be a serious matter, but instead provided me with a few hours of fun and laughter.

Crying in HMart (by Michelle Zauner)- Every single Asian American child of immigrants can relate to Michelle’s memoir, Crying in HMart. Her writing is so poignant and her story so relatable that I started crying on page 8 all the way to the end of the book (the title is definitely very fitting). On top of that, her story isn’t just about the immigrant lifestyle in America and the concept that it can be so hard to be torn between two worlds, never fitting in fully in either one; but its also about the love between a mother and a daughter and the trauma of cancer and grief. I was taken on so many emotional roller coasters throughout Crying in Hmart, which makes it one of the best reads of 2021 for me,

Shine (by Jessica Jung)- Ever since high school I have loved Kpop- the catchy songs and the addictive dances are all so fascinating! Jessica Jung belonged to one of my favorite OG Kpop groups- Girls Generation and while she has since left the group (due to “creative differences”) she will always remain a beloved icon of Kpop. Her debut novel, Shine, is a fictionalized version of what real Kpop trainees encounter while preparing to debut into the Kpop world. There are crazy rules (no dating! don’t gain a single pound!) and strict training schedules, but there’s also so much drama and determination. Shine is such a fun book and perfect for the ultimate relaxing night at home.

White Ivy (by Susie Yang)- I’ve been reading so many books written by Asian authors this year because that’s really where my interests have been lying and I have had White Ivy on my list since the beginning. Its the usual take on Asian Americans fitting into the American life, but sides more with the idea of becoming “white washed” and instead of embracing the typical immigrant story, Yang navigates the world of becoming a “white” Asian and fitting in with other Caucasians while maintaining an Asian heritage (a delicate balance I have also struggled with in the past). The ending was honestly shocking and not where I saw this story about an Asian American girl going AT ALL, but just makes this book even more fascinating and non-traditional.

American Panda (by Gloria Chao)- I wanted a sweet lighthearted book to read prior to leaving on vacation so I picked up this story about a Taiwanese American girl who grew up under the watchful eye of strict immigrant parents. While there were several parts of the book I could not relate to (my parents just weren’t the typical strict Asian parents I guess!), I still appreciated the underlying theme that children of immigrants had to work even harder to “repay” their parents sacrifice in journeying to a new country. I’m glad that by reading this book I was able to support another Asian author!

A Stranger in the House (by Shari Lapena)- This mystery/thriller leads the reader on a journey of suspense and intrigue about a seemingly happily married couple, Karen and Tom, and goes into all the different secrets couples can keep from each other. The ending is shocking (as is all Shari Lapena novels) and you won’t want to miss it!

Deadly Inside Scoop (by Abby Collette)- Not the best written book, but still an entertaining easy read! The plot follows an African American ice cream shop owner who encounters a murder right outside her shop and who embarks on an investigation to find the culprit. While the plot sounded very interesting to me and was what made me pick up the book in the first place, I felt that the writing was actually relatively boring and didn’t do a great job conveying the suspense or “murder mystery” type story line.

The Bone Code (by Kathy Reichs)- For many years now I’ve loved the show, Bones, and how mysteries are solved simply through examining well, bones. Its so fascinating how so much detail and information can be derived from the human skeleton that supports our bodies. For some reason, I’ve never read the books that inspired the show so I decided one day to just go for it. I’m not a big fan of Reichs writing, mainly because she would have cliffhangers at the end of each chapter, only to not resolve the suspense at the beginning of the next chapter. It was honestly a little confusing!

Greenlights (by Matthew McConaughey)- I never considered listening to Matthew McConaughey’s memoir (because other than being from my alma mater, UT Austin, I wasn’t really a big fan), but when a friend raved about it I decided to give the audiobook a go during my 4 hour drive to Dallas. And boy was I shocked! First, hearing McConaughey’s easygoing and distinctive voice telling me about his life story and life lessons was amazing. I loved his Australian accent during the story of his study abroad experience! Second, I learned so many crazy wonderful things about him that I didn’t know about before and now I can’t wait to see some of his movies.

Re Jane (by Patricia Park)- Continuing my streak of supporting Asian American authors by reading this modern day twist on the story of Jane Eyre by Korean American, Patricia Park. Although its been a while since I’ve read Jane Eyre so I can’t really say if Re Jane was a similar story or not…. I still enjoyed reading about the coming of age story about Jane Re as she understands herself through living in Brooklyn, Seoul, and back to her native Queens.

Shadow and Bone (by Leigh Bardugo)- Our book club’s September pick was a fantasy novel, a genre I haven’t really dived into yet, so I definitely had my reservations prior to reading. Shadow and Bone is a popular trilogy that has now been turned into an equally popular Netflix tv show (with very attractive actors). While it was a bit difficult at first to figure out the fantasy world the author had created for the story, I actually enjoyed the narrative (although I don’t think I’ll continue reading the other books in the trilogy) and by the end of the book, I felt like I had a grasp on the Grishaverse.

Anxious People (by Fredrik Backman)- Wow, Anxious People was so amazing and so relatable and so touching. I see why it is a New York Times Bestseller! I throughly enjoyed reading about a group of strangers who become better people by opening up to each other and understanding where the others are coming from. All during an afternoon of being held hostage by a fake bank robber (you’ll have to read the book to get it!).

Beach Read (by Emily Henry)- Beach Read was such a fun lighthearted read (that would obviously have been ten times better had I read it on the beach) and I loved the cute romance story between two authors who initially met in college literature class, only to reunite later as neighbors on the beach.

The Silent Patient (by Alex Michaelides)- My book club picked this thriller for our October read and I couldn’t be happier because I love mystery and suspense. The Silent Patient is written by a first time author, Alex Michaelides, who has written screen plays for some big time movies. While the writing is simple (aka easy to understand), I think the plot was developed well and the ending was such a surprise!

The Forest of Vanishing Stars (by Kristin Harmel)- My pre ordered brand new Kindle is finally here! Over are the days where I have to drive 15 minutes in the hot Texas sun to pick up my physical books from the West University Library. Here come the days of ebooks and traveling light! And to celebrate I borrowed an ebook so that I could use my Kindle on its very first day in my home. My library has 7 day specials occasionally where readers can borrow popular books for 7 days without waiting on the waitlist and The Forest of Vanishing Stars sounded intriguing so I thought I would give it a read. It is a historical fiction novel about a group of Jewish people who escape and survive in the forests of Poland during the Holocaust. As with any book about the Holocaust, I was extremely emotional throughout the entire story, but this book is worth the read. The words are so powerful and beautiful and the characters are a testament to the strength of the human spirit.

The Party Crasher (by Sophie Kinsella)- A juicy fun Sophie Kinsella book is always the remedy for a long day of boring old work day and I haven’t indulged myself in one of her stories in so long, I felt like it was time again. Get ready for tons of laughs (and tugs on your heartstrings)!

The Lost Apothecary (by Sarah Penner)- Named as one of the most anticipated books of 2021, The Lost Apothecary involves 2 women (one from the 1700s and one from present day) who tell their stories side by side throughout the novel. Its a bit of suspense and mystery all led by two great female leads.

Big Summer (by Jennifer Weiner)- The cutest book about a plus size girl who is navigating through life as an influencer and reconnecting with an old frenemy. The story makes you feel good about yourself, but at the same time acknowledging the fact that self image issues can pop up at any time. And a real bonus was that the plot actually ended up including a mini mystery (which I loved)!

The Wangs vs. the World (by Jade Chang)- I really wanted to like this book because it was written by a fellow Asian American, but honestly the plot was very confusing and dry and I had no idea where the story was going. The tagline stated that it was about a wealthy Asian American family (a dad, stepmom, and 3 siblings) who lose their wealth suddenly and are forced to discover their identities as individuals and as a family. From that, I was initially interested, but the actual plot was all over the place- from looking for long lost land in China to a cross country road trip from LA to New York.

Fault Lines (by Emily Itami)- A brief peak into the world of a Japanese woman who seemingly appears to have the perfect life, but is in fact extremely unsatisfied with her life. Even though the story doesn’t go major places and doesn’t have tons of highs or lows, I oddly still enjoyed reading about Mizuki’s life in Tokyo and her continued insight into the way her life is going.

Five Total Strangers (by Natalie Richards)- Originally, I thought this thriller would have a very complicated backstory and conclusion with 5 different strangers having 5 different major secrets and drama. However, in the end the this thriller mainly revolves around its main character, Mira, and its ending is somewhat predictable. This is a very simple mystery!

The Dressmakers of Auschwitz (by Lucy Adlington)- This is the second book I’ve read this year on the Holocaust and the tragedies that occurred in Europe during this time. However, while my first book was a work of fiction, The Dressmakers of Auschwitz is about the true story of several women from various backgrounds (Jewish, political prisoners, etc…) who literally sewed for their lives while being imprisoned in the infamous concentration camp, Auschwitz. The author told the stories of these dressmakers, who worked in the Upper Tailor Studio making clothing for SS wives, in a way that highlighted these womens’ bond with each other and how the bond of being prisoners helped them to survive the darkest days of their lives. I had never heard of their stories before and appreciated the opportunity to be educated on their survival stories.

Bossypants (by Tina Fey)- You probably know by now that I love listening to celebrity memoirs being read by the celebrity herself. I especially love comedian memoirs because they are always hilarious and full of funny anecdotes. I don’t know why I never listened to Tina Fey’s 2011 book when she is literally the queen of comedy, but I’m glad I finally did!

The Shining (by Stephen King)- My book club is on a mission to try books from various genres, including ones that wouldn’t normally be our first choice. I have never read a horror book before (and for good reason: I’m easily scared!), but since Stephen King is such a renowned author, I felt that this choice would be a great one. King’s writing is very detailed and sophisticated and The Shining is definitely very well written. The suspense and action (and gore) is there! I haven’t been converted into a horror novel lover, but The Shining was a great entryway into the genre.

Next Year in Havana (by Chanel Cleeton)- I’ve been wanting to read this Reese Witherspoon recommended novel for a long time now and finally downloaded it on my Kindle to read while traveling to and from Memphis on one of my last trips of the year. What I initially thought was just a romance novel (which was there for sure!), turned out to be so much more than that. I learned so much about Cuba’s history and my eyes were open about the struggles than Cubans faced whether they stayed in their homeland or made the decision to migrate to the US. I love how we can explore the world through books and its one of the reasons that has made me fallen back in love with reading!

People We Meet on Vacation (by Emily Henry)- I loved Beach Read and couldn’t wait to pick up the latest Emily Henry rom com novel. This one didn’t disappoint! The whole book is basically an homage to the movie, When Harry met Sally, and centers around 2 best friends who find their way back to each other and figure out their lives in the way that happily ever afters can only exist in books.

A Slow Fire Burning (by Paula Hawkins)- If you’ve read the book Girl on the Train, you’re familiar with its popular author Paula Hawkins and you’re familiar with the thrillers she churns out. A Slow Fire Burning is no different and offers up an intricate mystery that starts off with a murdered body in a houseboat and a whole slew of possible suspects with all sorts of personal stories. Its a great suspense novel and one that I recommend!

The Paper Palace (by Miranda Heller)- Google recommended this book to me and I can definitely see why- the story is up my alley! I love stories about love and relationships. Paper Palace is about a woman’s decision between her long time husband who has been by her side and created a family with her and her equally long time best friend who has been the keeper of her secrets over her lifetime.

The Love Hypothesis (by Ali Hazelwood)- I fell in love with this book and all of its quirky cute characters immediately upon reading. I loved the author’s idea of a science related romance and all the troubles the couple went through to get their happy ending. I love books like The Love Hypothesis for their light hearted approach to reading and can’t wait to read more books like it in 2022.

The Holiday Swap (by Maggie Knox)- The perfect Christmas book! The Holiday Swap is about two identical twins who switch places right before the holidays and find themselves in mischievous adventures and undergo life changes along the way. It reminded me of The Parent Trap (one of the all time best movies ever) and had me feeling so happy after reading.

The Girl with the Louding Voice (by Abi Dare)- This book opened my eyes to the unfair treatment of girls in Nigeria. I had only vaguely heard about the struggles girls go through for education in that country, but the author’s words (which are based on a true story) helped me understand that underprivileged Nigerian girls basically face the impossible when it comes to education and rights. After reading this book, I felt so fortunate to have grown up in a country where education is pretty much a given and something I will never take for granted again.

The Last Thing He Told Me (by Laura Dave)- Any book recommended by Reese Witherspoon is guaranteed to be a hit so I saved the best for last and loved every second of reading this thriller. The premise of the book resides on a man who disappears (for a variety of reasons) and leaves behind his wife and daughter to pick up the pieces, figure out the mystery, and continue living. I felt that it was a perfect 2021 read because this entire year has been full of confusion and uncertainty, but everyone has gathered their strength and continued living in these trying times.

That Summer (by Jennifer Weiner)- I had originally intended The Last Thing He Told Me to be my last read of 2021, however, I miscounted and discovered I was 1 book short with only 3 days left to spare. So I checked out what I thought would be a solid easy read by Jennifer Weiner (this is the second book I’ve read by this author this year) and blasted through the novel. But what I gained from the novel was so much more than easy- the book is based on the story of a girl who is raped by a guy when she is young and tells the perspectives from many other characters who later on become involved. I found the plot fascinating and eye opening.

Final Thoughts- I’m honestly shocked I’ve been able to read 52 books this year, although it was a struggle and not as easy as 2020 was, but I powered through (getting the Kindle as a gift really helped so thanks mom!) and soaked in so many stories this year. I can’t wait to see what books 2022 brings!

A Year of Books: 52 Books in 52 Weeks

I use to love reading. It was my first passion in life. As a child, I was never without a book- I would hide them under my bed and sneak them out whenever I was suppose to be doing homework or practicing piano. I would bring them along in the car to pass time while we drove the 50 minutes to Chinatown on Sundays (yes Houston suburbs are insanely far apart!). I craved the summers because I would get to read for an entire day uninterrupted by life’s demands (aka school). But as I got older I started to experience other activities and slowly started to grow other passions. I was no longer the girl from the suburbs where the only entertainment around was the movie theater and the mall. which you can really only go to so many times before the novelty of it wears away. All of a sudden, there were Korean dramas to watch, restaurants to eat at, and countries to travel to. Books were no longer my only interests and after a while I guess I just forgot about them. and how much joy they use to bring me. After 9 hours at the office, it was just easier to watch another episode of the drama I was currently following on TV or more fulfilling to step into a gym and knock a workout out.

This year, however, I really wanted to get back to my roots and my childhood passions. It was the start of a new decade and a fresh beginning. I wanted to pick up a book and actually read it from cover to cover. And I wanted to read not just one book in total- but to read one book per week. 52 books for the year. I knew this would be a huge challenge for me- in 2019 I opened up several books, but only managed to finish around 5-6. When the end of January rolled around, I was at a total count of 3 books and could not get into reading. It was so hard at the end of the day to choose a book over my laptop or TV. But I kept pushing through and 52 books later, I have to say I'm so happy I did this challenge! I’ve rediscovered my love for reading and I can see now how reading has really enriched lives.

Over the past year, I’ve gotten a lot of questions on how I select my books. Choosing the right books was critical for me because it meant that my interest levels and desire to read would be increase if the book suited my tastes. Luckily, in this day and age there’s always social media to help us make decisions! I turned to my all time favorite celebrity, Reese Witherspoon, and her book club, Hello Sunshine, to help select my book picks. She focuses on books that have a female lead, which I loved. I also paid attention to Barack Obama’s book recommendations that he makes every year on Instagram as well as what Oprah was currently reading. The Youtuber, Zoella, is another one of my favorite women so I checked her adorable website (goals!) to see what she read in 2019. The New York Times Bestseller List is also great way to check out what’s popular and what’s been recently released. Then I hit the library and reserved the books that peaked my interest (some of them took forever to become available) and the rest is history! 52 books later… here are some of my thoughts!

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Disclaimer- The books are listed in the order I read them in and not ranked in any particular way. I’ve been working on this blog post since January 2020 so my thoughts on each book came as soon as I finished- I didn’t just try to recall at the end of the year! I tried to select a wide variety of books from nonfiction to fiction, from women authors to male authors and from minority authors as well, but you’ll see below that almost all my picks ended up being from female authors.

Girl in Translation (by Jean Kwok)- This was the first book I read in 2020 and I loved it. I chose it first because I wanted to support an Asian author and knew the story would be relatable. The main character is a Chinese immigrant (similar to my family’s story) and the story line revolves around her experiences being an immigrant in America and growing up. The book really got me thinking if this was how my parents beginnings in America was like and how lucky I was to have grown up a citizen of this country. This book is a good peek at the immigrant experience and is an awesome coming of age story.

More Than Words (by Jill Santopolo)- This is your typical chick flick novel- girl has boyfriend, girl actually secretly likes another guy, girl has life drama. The author throws in a few plot twists throughout the book, but nothing was too surprising. If you’ve seen as many Korean dramas as I have, you’ll know whats coming by the way the author sets up her plots. Still, a comforting easy read!

The Other Woman (by Sandie Jones)- The book’s title is a bit misleading, but that’s part of the intrigue I guess! Despite appreciating the intrigue and suspense, I was overall disappointed and frustrated in how the main character, Emily, was portrayed. At times, I wanted to just reach into the novel and grab her by the shoulders and shake her for being so dumb. Definitely not for the feminist in me!

The Light We Lost (by Jill Santopolo)- I originally thought this book would be similar to the author’s other book I had previously read (see above) in that it would also be a chick flick novel. I was so wrong. While it is a love story, it goes much more in depth of the idea of fate and free will and destiny and as a result is so much more complicated. The book gave me the feels as people say and I definitely recommend it. Just beware- its not for the lighthearted.

Normal People (by Sally Rooney)- This book came highly recommended by several celebrities and book clubs, but I just couldn’t get into it. It took me forever to finish and I felt like the story was just dragged out. It is very similar to some of the other books listed above in that it is also about a couple’s love story. However, I love that the author is a millennial like me (she was born in 1991) and is taking the literary world by storm (she’s even on Time’s 100 list).

Still Lives (by Maria Hummel)- After reading a series of romance books. I was looking forward to this suspense novel and boy, it did not disappoint. Filled with art, murder, betrayal, and friendship, it is the perfect mix of murder mystery and thought provoking. The author focuses on obsession of violence and what it does to its victims both living and deceased. Throughout the book (which I could not put down), I felt as if my brain had to work extra hard to pick up on “clues” to help solve the mystery. I really enjoyed the thrill of the plot and the well developed main character, Maggie.

Searching for Sylvie Lee (by Jean Kwok)- I loved the first Jean Kwok book I read (see above) and decided that I needed another! And she definitely didn’t disappoint. This book is about two Chinese American sisters- one who is missing and one who is searching for her missing sister. Similar to Girl in Translation, there are numerous aspects about the story that relates to me and having grown up in a Chinese American immigrant family. I love that Jean Kwok is bringing our experiences and culture to the masses.

Little Fires Everywhere (by Celeste Ng)- I love supporting Asians in media so when I found this book on Reese Witherspoon’s book club list I knew I needed to grab a copy to read. Fun fact- Reese is also making this book into a movie! Although it is written by an Asian author (yay for Asian representation in media!), it is not about an Asian family (there are Asian characters though which I loved). I loved that the book had some controversy and drama in it- it is the perfect book club read. I even made my best friend read the book just so we could have discussions and debates over it!

The Couple Next Door (by Shari Lapena)- I was literally on the edge of my chair the whole time while reading this book and could not put it down. The ending (and a lot of the book actually) was shocking! After reading so many love stories and coming of age stories, it felt good to immerse myself in a story about kidnapping, crazy families, and murder. Its not set up as a mystery, but as a thriller and WOW was it a fun read. The book is also not too thick, which I appreciated because I was able to get through it in one sitting. Just prepare yourself for many many ups and downs!

Maid (by Stephanie Land)- So far in the year I’ve only read fiction novels and felt that it was appropriate to switch it up for a nonfiction memoir. Maid was on President Obama’s 2020 reading list and details 5 years of the author’s life when she worked as a housemaid struggling to get by on food stamps and other government assistance programs all while caring for her young daughter alone. It was an interesting look into the life of America’s poor and their will to survive. My family employs maids and like everyone else, I don’t give them too much thought. They clean my home once a month and then they go on their way. I don’t treat them poorly, but I also don’t go out of my way to get to know them. I felt like this book opened my eyes to other people’s experiences and lives in a way I hadn’t noticed or thought of before.

The Last Romantics (by Tara Conklin)- Chosen as her first book club (Read with Jenna) pick, Jenna Bush Hager recommended this book and I have to say, I also enjoyed it. Although, it was a little hard to follow at first in its format (the author tells her childhood story from the future point of view), the story follows a well loved tale of the life and love between family members.

Born A Crime (by Trevor Noah)- I first heard Trevor speak live at a company event in New York and loved everything about him. Yes he’s the Daily Show host, but he is much more than that. I’ve had his memoir on my to read list for quite a while now and was glad that I managed to get a hold of the book. Born A Crime tells the story of Noah’s childhood in South Africa where he grew up essentially an innocent criminal- it was illegal for black and white people to be in a relationship, much less have a child together. It is also the heartwarming story of Noah’s love for his mother and how he became who he is today.

Evvie Drake Starts Over (by Linda Homes)- They say to never judge a book by its cover, but I have to admit that for this book I judged its more mundane cover so much. To the point where I almost didn’t read it! If it weren’t for Jenna Bush’s book club recommendation, I wouldn’t have. And I would have sorely missed out. The story follows Evie after the death of her husband and gives us a glimpse into her life as we see her deal with multiple issues that come along with relationships and death. It’s a very heartwarming story and one that has a happy and hopeful ending.

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine (by Gail Honeymoon)- This was Reese’s very first book club pick and was one of Zoella’s 2019 reads so I knew it had to be a good one. It’s a story about survival, overcoming loneliness, knowing when to ask for help, and friendship. I read this book while in self isolation due to the coronavirus (I did not have the virus, but had a cough so the doctor recommended I stay indoors for a period of time) and related to Eleanor’s time alone away from people. I loved learning Eleanor’s story and it was one of the best books I’ve read so far in 2020! I’ve recommended this book to several of my friends so far and they have all loved it as well.

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Everything I Never Told You (by Celeste Ng)- I loved Little Fires Everywhere so much that I decided to read the author’s first book as well. While Little Fires Everywhere is about an American family, Everything I Never Told You revolves around a Chinese American mixed family set in the 1970s, which I found extremely interesting because there aren’t too many stories about what it means to be interracial. Although the plot itself was interesting, several of the characters annoyed me throughout the book and their flaws at time were a little TOO real for me to really enjoy. I realize that there are many families like this in the real world, but having to read about it was a bit much for me to take.

City of Girls (by Elizabeth Gilbert)- This was Caila Quinn’s first book club pick, which I meant to read, but I have to admit I was intimidated by how thick the book was- it felt like I would never be able to finish it! The book started off slowly, but gained traction and the ending was great. I have to admit though, this book wasn’t a page turner- I had to set daily reading goals for myself in order to get through it. If you’re looking for a feminist book with a strong center female protagonist, then this is the book for you. If you’re someone who prefers to get in the middle of the action quickly, then I would skip this one. I didn’t get into the story until Chapter 20! I’ve also realized that I’m not a huge fan of the books Caila Quinn chooses for her books club so probably will pass on the future book picks.

A Wedding in December (by Sara Morgan)- After reading heavier novels and nonfictions, I was looking forward to cracking open this light hearted romance book. Over the years I’ve read so many of these rom com novels, and over the next few years I’ll probably read even more. These types of books are the best when trying to take your mind off serious real life issues (aka the coronavirus) and help you dive into a fantasy world where happy endings abound. Don’t expect anything too thought provoking, but instead expect a good time! The story is told from 3 different perspectives and focus on 3 different love lines.

One of Us is Lying (by Karen McManus)- Since we’re still under coronavirus quarantine, I decided to follow along with Zoella’s March 2020 book club pick. I wanted to read something mysterious and suspenseful and this book definitely serves up both those things. It is listed as a Young Adult fiction so I wasn’t sure I would really get into it, but ending up loving how the book was written with different perspectives from the 4 main characters. It is a bit like The Breakfast Club with a nerd, a jock, a bad boy, and a homecoming queen stuck in detention together. But that’s where the similarities end. This book brings you on a full speed mystery/who dun it ride and beware- it is extremely enjoyable!

Dear Girls (by Ali Wong)- I’ve loved comedian Ali Wong’s hilarious jokes and acting for a while now and have been dying to read her latest memoir set in letters she crafts for her two daughters (to read when they grow up because some of the content is definitely adult rated). It’s a book filled with Wong’s dry humor, stories about the realities of motherhood, and her experiences growing up an Asian American woman. I laughed out loud at some parts and other parts really resonated with my own life- the book just has an overall feeling of “real” to it.

One in A Million (by Lindsey Kelk)- I’ve been binge reading fiction novels recently and wanted to read more feel good romance stories. The world around me is going crazy with the virus (I haven’t been able to leave my house in over a week!) and for now, I just want to immerse myself in a story with a happy ending. One in a Million definitely delivers on the happy ending! Although I do feel like the story had some plot holes to it, I didn’t even care because that the story allowed me to not use my brain for a few hours while I read and I ended up feeling warm and fuzzy inside. Get ready for a British love story!

Loveboat Taipei (by Abigail Hing Wen)- I was hesitant on reading more YA books, but this one was recommended to me on Instagram and I was pretty curious on if IG suggestions and ads were accurate or not so I decided to give it a go. The book is about 18 year olds so I thought I would need to try my hardest to keep my eye rolling to a minimum, but it turned out that the story actually made me very nostalgic for that time in my life. It’s a coming of age story all about going abroad and meeting new people, learning about a new culture, falling in love, and all the while discovering yourself. And it definitely reminded me of my study abroad experience in Hong Kong! If you’re looking for a cheesy read that is also a blast from the past then this is the book for you.

Two Can Keep a Secret (by Karen McManus)- I loved One of Us is Lying (see 4 books above) so much that I decided to read another book in the series. The library is still closed because of the virus and city shutdown so I tested out the ebook app, OverDrive, and while it is not the same as having a good old physical book in your hands, it’s not bad! Two Can Keep A Secret is written along the same lines as McManus’ previous book- there is a cast of unique characters who work together to solve a crime that they are involved with. There’s suspense, love, sibling relationships, and everything that makes a great mystery novel.

Daisy Jones and the Six (by Taylor Jenkins Reid)- This book has been a staple on Hello Sunshine’s book club list and I was pretty excited to read it. The plot starts slow, but quickly picks up- I couldn’t put it down! It follows the rise and fall of a fictional rock band in the 1970s and reminded me so much of the movies, Rocketman and Bohemian Rhapsody. It is all sex, drugs, and rock and roll, but the book is also so much more than that- it’s loyalty, reality, and emotions as well. The story is told in interview format with all the characters giving their various perspectives, which I loved because it was so interesting to see how different people interpreted the same events.

Startup (by Doree Shafrir)- Instagram knows me so well- it has started recommending books for me even and the recommendations are actually spot on with my interests. Startup is set in New York City’s Madison Square Park where I use to work and I became so nostalgic reading about the characters strolling the park and eating lunch at my favorite salad spot, Chopt. I miss NYC so much now! The book revolves around a fictional startup, TakeOff, and tells the story of the rise and fall of the business from various characters perspectives. I’ve always been curious about what working at a startup would be like (the uncertainty and lack of formal rules, but oh god the snacks!) and this book gave me a glimpse into that lifestyle. The narrative was great, but I was disappointed by the ending because I felt like there were a few open holes. But then again, maybe that was the author’s purpose…

The House Swap (By Rebecca Fleet)- This book was recommended to me via Google when I was searching for reviews on Daisy Jones and the Six so I thought why not. And wow, I’m starting to be scared of all the analytics these social media sites run because they all know my personality so well. This book is told from the perspective of the main character in two different time periods- when she is away on the house swap and when she is still at home (prior to the swap). There were also little excerpts from the culprit, which only drove my suspicions through the roof. However, I did enjoy the mystery in discovering how the various characters related to each other, there was a bit too much confusion on my end to truly enjoy the story.

The Proposal (by Jasmine Guillory)- Another quarantined day, another rom com book. That’s what my life has been like lately. The Proposal is a lighthearted story about a women who gets proposed to publicly at a baseball game, but responds with a no. Instead, she starts a romance with the guy who saved her from public embarrassment! It isn’t the greatest story I’ve read and if I weren’t documenting all my books in this blog post, the story would just be a blip on my reading radar. But, for the 3 hours it took me to finish this book, it kept my mind off real life so I would say this book definitely served its purpose as a rom com.

Why Not Me? (by Mindy Kaling)- I’ve been taking a break from reading for the past few weeks (ok its been a month) and decided to ease myself back into it by listening to my first audio book. I’m a huge fan of Mindy’s TV shows and thought it would be a great idea to listen to her voice read me her second memoir. Best idea ever. Her voice brought to life the humor, anecdotes, and life stories that her book conveys. I loved it. I loved hearing about her meeting with Barack Obama and her relationship with her mentors and her insights into female confidence. If you’re planning to read this book, I highly suggest listening to the audiobook instead as it provides a third dimension to the story.

The Hunting Party (by Lucy Foley)- Told from 4 different perspectives in a current and past tense, this New York Times bestseller is a bit slow in the beginning but picks up so fast you won’t even see what’s coming. The book has so many twists and turns I was literally left spinning and needed moments to mentally catch up with everything. There are 9 friends who have all kinds of interesting secrets and are on a vacation in middle of nowhere Scotland, but only 8 of them manage to stay alive. If that doesn’t make you interested, then I don’t know what will. This was a fantastic introduction to the author, Lucy Foley, and I can’t wait to read her other books.

Last Tang Standing (by Lauren Ho)- This book is the cross between Crazy Rich Asians and Bridget Jones Diary and is told via the main character’s diary entries. It’s based in Singapore and revolves around the pressures placed by Chinese families on adult single women to get married. The story also delves into the traditional Chinese relationships between parent and child and is so relatable for any Asian kid growing up in the Western world. There’s frank humor, a splashy love story, and a peek into the lives of the rich and glamours Singaporeans. It’s the perfect Saturday afternoon beach read!

Marriage Game (by Sara Desai)- In my quest to support minority authors, I discovered this book by the Indian American author, Sara Desai. From the title, you can probably guess that it is a romance novel (and it sure doesn’t disappoint on this front!), but the story is also about finding yourself and familial love- typical romance novel stuff. It’s the ultimate cheesy novel, but I have to admit I still shed a few tears while reading…

I’ve Got My Eyes On You (by Mary Higgins Clark)- I was obsessed with Mary Higgins Clark’s mysteries in high school and always got the chills when I would read them alone in my big empty house after school. I haven’t touched her books in years, but when I found out she passed away earlier this year in January I decided to choose one of her most recent books to read. Reading it late at night probably wasn’t the best decision, but the suspense and writing was definitely top notch. If you’re looking for a solid mystery novel, this is your book!

One Of Us Is Next (by Karen McManus)- If you haven’t already figured it out by now, I love Karen McManus and her books. One of Us Is Next is the sequel to One of Us Is Lying and revolves around the little sister of one of the main characters from the first book. All of the main characters from the first book appear in the second one, only making me appreciate this book even more. McManus has a talent for crafting and developing the best characters and also for dropping clues throughout the plot so the reader can help solve the mystery. I can’t wait for more books from the author!

Becoming (by Michelle Obama)- Wow. I don’t know what took me so long to finally read Michelle Obama’s memoir, but it was worth the wait. Her book is amazing and that’s not an exaggeration! I listened to the audiobook version since I had heard that it won a Grammy previously and felt so inspired listening to Michelle talk about her life story, experience as a First Lady, and her thoughts, beliefs, and advice on topics that matter. Everything you’ve been curious about is all up for grabs in the book- her thoughts on the public’s obsession with her fashion, her thoughts on Donald Trump’s presidency and politics, her experience raising two young daughters at the White House, and so much more. One of the best books I’ve read this year hands down!

The Last Black Unicorn (by Tiffany Haddish)- I listened to Tiffany’s memoir as an audiobook and her voice definitely brought her story to life and made me laugh out loud multiple times. Beware though, the usage of curse words is a lot and there are a few stories in the book where I wasn’t sure it was appropriate to laugh even though Tiffany was clearly cracking a joke about the situation. See, Tiffany’s childhood was not easy and she recounts many stories that reflect her tough bringing up. This resulted in numerous instances where I felt plain uncomfortable laughing. If you read the book, you’ll see what I talking about. Still, her story is one that shows her grit and determination to be successful and how hard work does translate into a better future. I also loved her stories about Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith! Just be prepared, it is a total 180 from Michelle Obama’s Becoming.

The Secrets We Kept (by Lara Prescott)- Thankfully, my local library began doing curbside pickups for library books so I was able to start reading physical books again instead of the tiny print on ebooks. There’s just something about flipping actual pages that just can’t compare with swiping on an electronic device. One of Reese Witherspoon’s book club picks, The Secrets We Kept is about female spies operating as CIA agents during the Cold War and America’s use of literary weapons to win assist in bringing down the Soviet Union by infiltrating information into Russia that way. While I loved the thought of all these strong women spies carrying out missions for our country in a time when women were mostly expected to stay at home and have children, I wasn’t too big a fan of how the story was told and found the switching between protagonists slightly confusing.

The Hate U Give (by Angie Thomas)- I borrowed this book on a whim after seeing it on a random shelf at the library one day and after reading it, was so moved and touched by its contents. I”m wary of sad books and tend to stay away from them, which is why it took me so long to read this one. This book was both eye opening and informative on the topic of police brutality and racism in America. As an Asian female, I’ve never been scared of the police nor experienced any negative encounters with them. Reading this book gave me insight into what it must be like to be black in America and allowed me to gain a better understanding into the inherent racism they face. I still will never fully understand what its like to be black, but I’m grateful that this book provided me with even a little peek. Considering the current times, I highly recommend this book!

To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before (by Jenny Han)- Ever since this book was made into the most adorable Netflix movie ever, its become a cult classic. The love story is so cute and I really can’t believe its taken me this long to read the book. Lara Jean brings us back to the simpler times of our high school years and lets us enjoy her relationship ups and downs with Peter. It is a heart warming story about first love, families, and growing up. I also loved that the main characters are of Asian descent! We need more of those in this day and age. I’m so excited that there are two more books left in the series for me to read.

Nothing To See Here (by Kevin Wilson)- Probably the oddest book I’ve read thus far… but also one of the most heartwarming. When I first saw the book as part of the Today Show’s Read with Jenna Book Club, I was slightly surprised because stories about children that spontaneously catch on fire (yes I know) don’t usually make national TV. But once I started reading I realized why. The book is more than just a story about odd children, it’s about the relationship between childhood friends who were once close but haven’t seen each other in years (I know this is something many people can relate to), the relationship between blended families, the unconditional and sometimes non-unconditional love of parents, and most importantly discovering who you truly are and falling in love with yourself.

The Two Lives of Lydia Bird (by Josie Silver)- I’ve seen this book promoted on Instagram by a few influencers so despite not being a fan of Josie Silver’s writing (I couldn’t get through her first book One Day in December), I decided to give this book a shot. Lydia Bird lost her fiance, the love of her life, to a car accident, but now she can actually still have a life with him. In her dreams. Lydia has to now choose between living in reality and living in her dreams, between who she use to be before the accident and who she has become after the accident. It’s an interesting premise and explores the concept of grief, which can be such a hard topic to talk about. Although a few moments of the book brought me to tears (I can only imagine what its like losing your fiance suddenly) and I appreciated the overall theme of finding yourself and holding on to who you are, I had a hard time really getting into Silver’s words and felt that her writing was very generic.

The Dutch House (by Ann Patchett)- This acclaimed novel discusses the lives of two siblings whose life stories revolve around the childhood home they were forced into and subsequently forced out of. It is written in memoir style with the younger sibling Danny serving as the narrator. Although, it’s clear throughout the book that the story he tells is mainly about his older sister, Maeve. The siblings deal with all kinds of blows during their early life- their mother walks out of the family, their father isn’t very present, and worst of all, there’s even an evil stepmother involved. But nonetheless, the book is about how your past makes you who you are today as well as the tigh bond that can exist between siblings.

American Dirt (Jeanine Cummins)- I’ve been so hesitant on picking up this book because despite being on Oprah’s 2020 Book Club list and a New York Times Bestseller, there’s been a lot of controversy surrounding the fact that the book invokes negative stereotypes about Mexican immigrants and also the fact that the author does not come from a Mexican immigrant background (she;s half white half Puerto Rican). However, in the end my curiosity won out and I wanted to see for myself what all the hype and criticism was about. The first few pages of the book alone are shocking (especially for us Americans who have most likely never experienced the terror of drug cartels) and I definitely wasn’t able to put the book down after that. Reading about Lydia’s journey by cargo train (she rode all the way on the roof of the train) from Mexico City all the way to the Arizona/Mexico border (she then spent days trekking through the desert and hiding from border patrol) left me speechless. The amount of hardship, suffering, and terror these migrants endure just for a tiny glimmer of hope for a better life is so hard for me to wrap my privileged brain around. The author spent 5 years researching for the novel and based the fictional events around accurate facts so I actually felt like I was learning so much and becoming more aware of the illegal immigration situation. And for that, I think reading this book is a must.

American Royals (by Katharine McGee)- This book imagined America as if it was governed by royals instead of Presidents- George Washington was offered a crown instead of a presidency and the main characters of the story are his direct descendants. It’s your typical YA novel in that there is love and breakups, loyalty, and betrayal, and tons of cheesy but sweet moments. The lightheartedness and endearing creativity of the author (all the American states are led by individuals with titles instead of governors!) was much welcomed after the heaviness of the previous book I read. The story follows the lives of the first Queen of America and her two younger siblings as well as the intricacies of their love lives and loyal subjects. The book ends on a cliffhanger because the sequel is scheduled to come out this Fall.

Writers and Lovers (by Lily King)- Chosen as Read with Jenna’s March 2020 pick, I had high expectations for the book. But after a few pages, I quickly realized that the book wasn’t for me. The premise seemed interesting enough- the idea of working hard for your dream and holding out for eventual success is something that every single person wants to believe in and strive for. However, the execution of the story was too mundane for me and I got lost in the many turns the plot took. From grief, to love and romance, to blue collar jobs, to friendship, to intricate family relationships, the book also explored many other themes, which I felt was too much for a 324 page novel. The book doesn’t have any extreme highs or lows, it’s just a book about a girl finding her way in this world and trying to work hard for her dream of being a writer.

Interpreter of Maladies (by Jhumpa Lahiri)- 7 months into the year, I’ve finally joined a book club! I’ve been wanting to join one for the longest time because sometimes its nice to have someone to discuss with after you’ve read a particularly great book. Another book club member selected this book as our club’s first reading and I have to admit that I wasn’t too excited about it because, well, I admit I judge books by their covers. But Interpreter of Maladies was a pleasant surprise. The book is a collection of short stories about various people with Indian heritage. I felt like I was getting a glimpse into the lives of random passerbys and learning more about the common struggles of people’s everyday lives. From a boy and his memories of his nanny who was trying to learn how to drive to the failing marriage of a couple struggling to deal with the aftermath of a miscarriage, I felt like these people’s stories could be a reflection of anyone’s life.

The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo (by Taylor Jenkins Reid)- I thoroughly enjoyed reading Daisy Jones and the Six (also by Reid) and thought I would check out another one of her books. Seven Husbands is an Elizabeth Taylor inspired novel about a gorgeous 1950s movie star who has hired a modern day journalist to write her biography. Her story starts from childhood and goes all the way through all seven husbands. There are love triangles, betrayals, friendships, Hollywood drama, and tons of twists and turns. The ending is a true shocker. But more than that, I really started to think of Evelyn Hugo as a real life movie star. One whose movies I might have seen. I think that’s the beauty of Reid’s writing- it is so believable.

Open Book (by Jessica Simpson)- I’ve really gotten into listening to celebrity memoirs via audiobook because it is so interesting hearing their life stories told in their voices. Jessica Simpson’s memoir was released earlier this year and received raving reviews, even making it to the New York Times Bestsellers list, so I knew I wanted to give it a listen. The book was shockingly good. I never knew that one of my favorite 90s pop icons lived such a unique and interesting life. The two best parts of the book was getting to hear how Simpson overcame her previous struggles (and she had many) to achieve her current version of happiness and also having the opportunity to listen to her newest songs that can only be heard via her audiobook. There are so many opinions on Jessica Simpson out there, but there’s no doubt in my mind that she had to gather a lot of courage to share her story to the world.

The Authenticity Project (by Clare Pooley)- I loved the premise of this book. The idea of a little green notebook making the rounds of a neighborhood, documenting people’s “authentic” truths and bringing together an odd group of people who otherwise wouldn’t have known each other just made me feel so good and tingly inside. It really showed that everyone you see has all different kinds of struggles inside and that everyone needs someone to trust and rely on. Although I’m sure the purpose of the book was to divulge something profound, personally my favorite part was the love story between 2 of the characters and their journey to finding each other. The Authenticity Project is told from the perspective of many different characters in the order that they receive the green notebook. There are a few major surprises that occur along the way, but for the most part, the book is a calming read.

Bringing Down The Duke (by Evie Dunmore)- Set in the late 1800s in London when women are first allowed to attend Oxford University, Bringing Down the Duke tells the story of a young woman (who is only 25 years old but apparently that age was considered “ancient” in those times) who is among Oxford’s first female students and only obtained the funds to attend the prestigious university through a suffragette organization. Her scholarship stipulates that she has to help support the suffragette movement by persuading men and women of nobility status and political power to take up their cause. As a result, her life (and her heart) is entangled with a mysterious duke. This book was your normal romantic comedy novel and a great breather for when reality gets too stressful.

The Invitation (by Lucy Foley)- There are so many characters in this book its kind of hard to keep track of everyone and their personalities and their individual stories. But the basis of the plot is that a group of people from the entertainment industry (investors, movie director, actor/actress, and a journalist) set out on a weeks long cruise around Italy and the Mediterranean to promote their movie. Along the way affairs occur, drama bubbles up, and secrets are uncovered. The main arc that surrounds all characters is their experience with the recently ended World War II. The War has affected every single character differently and all are reacting in different ways from its after effects. I felt like The Invitation was dreadfully boring in the beginning, but picked up towards the middle and end. Lucy Foley is a master at crafting elaborate and surprise endings.

The Flatshare (by Beth O’Leary)- I’ve heard several good things about Beth O’Leary and how her books are fun to read so I thought I would give one a go. The Flatshare tells the story of a guy and a girl who are essentially roommates and share the same tiny London flat, but never actually see each other because one is only home during the day and the other is only home at night due to their respective work hours. Now that type of living arrangement would never fly during these pandemic times when everyone is working from home, but the plot is still ingenious. Its one of those situations that you’ve probably wondered about and now O’Leary brings the story to life. O’Leary also spotlights emotionally abusive relationships in the book and highlights how overcoming a toxic relationship is possible. Personally, I couldn’t put this book down. I had to know what would happen between Tiffy and Leon!

Where the Crawdads Sing (by Delia Owens)- This was another book club pick and one that I was really looking forward to read. The story focus on the life of a young girl who grew up alone in the marsh after being abandoned by her family and isolated from the towns people. There is romance and mystery, but the best part of the book was reading the language the author used to describe the Carolina marshes. Her descriptions are so vivid that I could almost picture being in the marsh with “The Marsh Girl” as the main character is called. The ending was a shocker, but overall the book was well worth the read.

Such a Fun Age (by Kiley Reid)- For my 52nd book, I thought I would read a book that I had been waiting on for a while. Such a Fun Age has been hyped up on social media and covers very important and relevant topics such as racism and the differences in relationships between black and white people. The premise of the book revolves around an African American babysitter who was tasked with bringing her young charge to a grocery store at night while the child’s parents dealt with a house safety issue. While at the grocery store, a racist incident occurs, which as a result impacts all the main characters of the book. It was an interesting read that opened my eyes to the race dynamics that influence how we act and speak.

 
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CHALLENGE ACCOMPLISHED! I’m so proud I was able to go from reading literally one book a year to reading at least one a week. I felt like I rediscovered my joy of reading again and I also discovered audiobooks as well as ebooks. Although, I’m still an old school girl who prefers physical books.

BONUS READS - I didn’t expect myself to finish reading 52 books so early on in the year when I started the challenge, but thanks to the pandemic, which put a serious damper on my social and travel life, I had tons more time to stay at home reading books. I also started coming across more and more titles that I was interested in reading. So I’ve decided to finish out the year with a few more books! I guess that brings my total 2020 reads to 56 books!

Royal (by Danielle Steele)- The plot of Royal essentially covers the life of a mother and daughter so I felt like the story telling was pretty rushed and basically only stated the facts instead of delving into thoughts and emotions. However, it was a pretty easy read and would be perfect for a sunny beach day. The story isn’t too unique in that it is about a lost royal princess (I had serious Anastasia vibes from it!) who is eventually found by her birth family and achieves great things for her country, Britain. The writing felt very old fashioned (which makes sense because the author is an older renowned romance writer) so I think maybe this book may be targeted towards a different set of people than myself.

The Guest List (by Lucy Foley)- This is my third Lucy Foley book this year (they keep getting recommended to me!), but this one is the one that was chosen for Reese Witherspoon’s Book Club so I had even higher expectations for it. And it did not disappoint at all. I couldn’t put it down and felt like I had to find out who would be the killed and the killer. The ending is a huge surprise but ties the story together nicely without any loose ends- another reason why I loved this book.

My Sister, The Serial Killer (by Oyinkan Braithwaite)- This book came with high praise from Zoella’s book club so it was another one that I had high expectations for. It was also one of my first times reading a novel by an African writer (the author is from Nigeria where the book takes place). If you love romance and mysteries, this is the book for you. The title of the book gives away the main premise, but I was still hooked in with every single page. The book comments on the idea of loyalty of family versus morality and ethics. It’s a very interesting read!

Talking to Strangers (by Malcolm Gladwell)- My last book club read for the year (can I just say how grateful I am for my little book club?) strayed into the nonfiction realm, but the book selected is one I would have never chosen to read on my own or even been aware of- which is the beauty of book clubs. I’m not huge on “self help” books or books that try to give too much advice, just because I feel like reading should be enjoyable and fun and not an experience where I need to be taking physical notes (that reminds me too much of school). However, I actually found the information presented in the book very interesting and compelling. Would I read it again? Probably not, but it is a pretty unique first read!

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Any ideas for my 2021 reads? I’m starting all over with 52 new books so I’ll need a lot of recommendations!

Goodbye 2020: What I Will and Won't Miss

2020 has not turned out the way I imagined, to say the least. It hasn’t turned out the way anyone has imagined probably. There have been many expected and unexpected negative points, but also many positive points for the year. As I say goodbye to 2020, I thought I would share my thoughts with all of yall.

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Won’t Miss

Pandemic induced anxiety and stress

Wow, this year has been a doozy for sure. And its unsurprisingly caused a lot of extra anxiety and stress for a lot of people. On top of worrying about everyday life stuff, there’s the added worry of job security and health. There were so many times throughout the year where I was so scared that I or a family member had caught Covid and that our lives would be disrupted from it. Any little cough or feelings of lethargy would result in a trip to the doctor’s to get nose swabbed and tested for the virus, which would always end up coming back negative. I was very lucky to have retained my job throughout the year (I work for an essential business so that helped the company financial situation immensely), however, I know that many others have not been as fortunate and just know that I am thinking of all of you. It has been a unique year and I have to say that as the vaccine continues to roll out to inidviduals in 2021, I definitely won’t miss all the anxeity the pandemic has caused.

Panic buying

I’ve never seen the grocery store shelves as empty as they were during the early months of the pandemic (and I’ve lived through several hurricanes and snowstorms!). Not only were items like toilet paper, cleaning supplies, and hand sanitizer gone from shelves, but items like flour, eggs, milk, and even nutella were disappearing at rapid speeds as well. And it was all for nothing! The grocery stores didn’t close once during the pandemic- they remained faithfully open every single day (albeit with longer than usual lines). All the aggressive tendencies in people came out and witnessing people rushing into stores like its Black Friday or something just to grab bundles and bundles of toilet paper has been shocking to say the least. Won’t miss that at all!

Election

I try not to let Toast and Travel get too political because I want it to be an escape or safe haven from all the turmoil that has surrounded our country this year and in previous years. But this year there has been so much bitterness and divide in the U.S and most of it has stemmed from words and actions of our own President and subsequently the election that voted him out. I had a mini celebration when the moment occurred and I’m looking forward to 2021 where Covid can finally be taken seriously, our international relations can improve, climate change can be acknowledged again, and acts of racism can be called out.

Lack of international travel

For the first time in I really don’t know how long, I did not leave the country once during the entire year. I always try to travel to at least 3 new countries a year and this has been the first time I haven’t achieved that goal. It wasn’t due to lack of trying though! In the early months of the pandemic I still had faith that countries would open up towards the end of the year or that the pandemic would improve significantly. Sadly, those things never happened. But, I’m excited for the upcoming vaccine distribution and the eventual opportunity to start exploring our amazing world again.




Will Miss

Slow Down and Relax

I’m normally such a fast paced person (which is why life in New York City suited me so much I guess) and the pandemic has forced me to slow down and enjoy the small moments of life. Instead of having a jam packed schedule every day, I just went with the flow and did things whenever I felt like it. I didn’t schedule in time to read books, I just picked up a book whenever I felt the urge to read, which was often considering there wasn’t much else to do. I discovered new hobbies like painting greeting cards and baking; hobbies that I otherwise would have never given a chance because I love dining out, visiting museums, and hanging out with my friends too much (all things that the pandemic prevented). I’ve thoroughly enjoyed relaxing at home with my family, attending virtual church on Sunday mornings, and just taking life one day at a time.

Reading 52 Books!

There will be an upcoming post on this topic soon, but yes I did read 52 books this year! One book for every week of the year. I made this plan prior to the pandemic and had concerns on whether or not I would be able to achieve this goal because I haven’t carved out the time to read books in years. Thanks to having to quarantine for several months, however, I was able to fly through so many wonderful books. I’m still shocked I read so much during this past year!

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Exploring Texas

With the ability to leave the country cut off and plane travel appearing to be dangerous, I ended up spending several weekends exploring my own home state and going on road trips across Texas. I was so surprised at how many amazing places are within driving distance of Houston that I had never heard about before or given a chance to. Normally, heading to Fredericksburg, Texas for a wine trail wouldn’t be as exciting as flying to Napa Valley in California for a slew of wine tastings, but with driving as my only option I discovered that places like Fredericksburg have their own charm as well. From Fredericksburg to Dripping Springs to Fort Worth, I have been loving the opportunity to explore Texas. And I have several more trips planned for 2021! Look forward to posts about Boerne and Wimberley as well!

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Working from Home

I’ve never worked a job where remote work was the status quo so to switch from showing up to the office daily and having plenty of face time with my coworkers to setting up my office in my room and meeting coworkers virtually was a shock in the beginning. Working from home took some getting use to (there are so many more distractions at home!), but now that I’ve been at home for about 9 months now I love it! I use to commute an hour to and from work so saving 2 hours of my day from commute and the scary Houston traffic has been the greatest gift of all (lol). Having flexibility to take care of errands and house related chores has been nice as well- I’m able to use my lunch hour or free time to buy groceries, mail letters, and start a load of laundry. Things I could never do before when working in an office!

Saving My $$$

I was so lucky to not have any rent during these past few months as I continued to live with my parents. That multiplied with not being able to go out and spend money on restaurant dining, birthday parties, and travel let me save even more money. Now that 2021 is heading back to normal I’m so excited to be able to have the funds for a few international trips that otherwise might be too luxurious for me (hello Olympics in Japan and World Expo in Dubai!).


Final Thoughts

2020 has had its uncertainties, but one thing that I’m most grateful for is all of you. Working on this blog, dreaming up blog posts, being creative, and seeing my readership count increase has been a dream come true for me and I am so thankful for every single one of my readers who join me in all of my adventures. When the pandemic first started and it became clear that travel would not be an option for a while, I was worried on how I would continue to create content for Toast and Travel. After all, the main premise of this blog is travel! However, the unexpected challenged allowed me to think outside the box and really find different ways to share my love of travel. Thank you for listening to me and adventuring with me!

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How to Make Matcha Witch Finger Cookies for Halloween

I was first inspired to make these Halloween treats when watching season 7 of the Great British Baking Show where one of the contestants who was obsessed with Halloween made similar ones for the signature competition (if you love the show you’ll know who I’m talking about). The judges on the show weren’t fans of the strong matcha flavor brought on by the cookie, but I personally love everything matcha (its actually good for you too and when made in latte form, is stronger than coffee!) and knew I had to attempt to make these witch fingers for Halloween. If you aren’t a matcha lover like I am, it is possible to just make a simple sugar cookie dough and add in a touch of green food coloring to achieve the same colors. I used Ancient Tea Leaf’s recipe for the cookies (because it ended up being so much easier than the British Baking Show one), although I did make a few slight changes and did not use their matcha powder because any brand works really. Matcha powder can be found in your local Japanese grocery store or on Amazon, which is where I purchased one. Matcha can not only be used to make these cookies, but I actually add my powder into almond milk to make an iced matcha latte and also into vanilla ice cream for a matcha infused flavor.


Ingredients

1 cup unsalted butter, softened

1 cup powdered sugar (confectionery)

1 egg

1 teaspoon Almond extract (optional)

1 teaspoon Vanilla extract (add 2 teaspoons if you don’t plan to use almond extract)

2 3/4 cups all-purpose flour

1 teaspoon baking powder

1/2 tsp salt

3 teaspoons of matcha powder (if you want a less strong matcha flavor then 2 tsp works as well)

A handful of almonds (sliced or unsliced) for the “nails”

Red food coloring or raspberry jam for the “blood”

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Steps

  1. In a mixing bowl, beat together the butter, sugar, egg, almond and vanilla extract

  2. Add in the flour, matcha powder, baking powder, and salt. At this point the dough should be green.

  3. Cover and refrigerate for 30 min.

  4. Roll 1 tablespoon of dough into finger shape for each cookie. Depending on if you want big or small fingers, you can add or take away dough. Beware that the cookies do rise and expand in the oven so they could potentially get huge if you use too much dough.

  5. Squeeze in center to create knuckle shapes; using a fork or toothpick, make several places to form knuckle. Make sure to make the end of the finger (opposite of the nail bed) flat.

  6. Press 1 almond firmly into one end for the nail.

  7. Place on lightly greased baking sheets or parchment lined baking sheets.

  8. Bake in a 325 degree oven for 20-25 minutes or until pale golden-green.

  9. Let cool for 3 minutes.

  10. Lift up almond; squeeze jam or red food coloring onto nail bed and press almond back into place, so the red oozes out like “blood”.

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The results? You will love eating and serving these matcha witch fingers! They are such a creative and delicious Halloween treat that they will brighten up any spread set up for the spookiest holiday of the year. Share your witchy finger photos below!



How to Make a Father's Day Brunch Board

Since my Mother’s Day Brunch board was a success, I decided to come up with a Father’s Day brunch board and challenge myself to finding and baking a whole new slew of recipes. I scoured the internet and hit up my favorite cooking blogs for weeks in advance and finally decided on 5 food items. This time, instead of filling my board with easy fillers like turkey bacon, I made everything except the fruit from scratch. Everything tasted so delicious and I loved seeing my family, especially my dad, enjoy the meal.

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Blueberry Coffee Cake Muffins - I recently purchased Half Baked Harvest’s Super Simple cookbook and have been obsessed with her recipes. She really puts thought into each ingredient that goes into her food. This blueberry coffee cake muffin recipe uses greek yogurt and maple syrup to bring out the flavors and make the muffins stand out. I left off the streusel this time, but in the past I’ve included it and felt like it added that extra crunch.

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Breakfast Pizza - Wow, this recipe was the true shocker of the day. I added it to my brunch board because I wanted something that was large and filling that wasn’t too difficult to make. I randomly chose a breakfast pizza recipe online (there are a lot!) and was pleasantly surprised at how delicious the homemade bechamel egg sauce was. This is now one of my favorite pizza recipes and I can’t wait to make it again! It is the definition of breakfast.

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Cheese and Ham Croissant Cups - This recipe (also by Half Baked Harvest)- makes fancy looking breakfast pastries, but in reality is super simple to make. I bought the pastry sheets from my local grocery store and after that everything else was just items that were readily available in my refrigerator. These are the perfect food items for any party!

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Cheddar Biscuits - I had a sudden craving for Red Lobster cheddar biscuits and decided to try Delish’s copycat recipe. They turned out so yummy- I loved the well balanced cheese and garlic flavors. If you have leftovers, toss them into the air fryer the next day and they’ll be just as good.

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Breakfast Potatoes - I’m obsessed with my cajun seasoning and look for different ways to incorporate it into my food. I can’t believe its taken me so long to discover the joys of cajun seasoning…. Anyways, my cajun seasoned breakfast potatoes added a flavor kick to my brunch board and was the perfect complement to my breakfast staples. All it is is sliced potatoes drenched in oil and seasoning and then fried in the air fryer- simple and fast!

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Fruit - The best part of summer is all the tropical fruits that come into season. I love peaches and watermelons and plums! But they are so messy to cut and place… so I decided to stick with grapes and strawberries for my brunch board. Besides, who doesn’t love strawberries??

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Brunch boards are so easy to put together and are perfect for families who have a wide variety of tastebuds and various preferences. When coming up with what to make, ensure there is a balance between savory and sweet. Some people love sweet items like pancakes and waffles for breakfast, while others prefer savory items like bacon and eggs. Prepare both so everyone is happy! Tap into what you and your family love and are craving- egg based recipes are always solid. The key to making a successful homemade board is preparation. Look at your menu and see which items (like muffins and biscuits) can be made the night before. This will lessen the time you spend cooking the day of and allow you more time to eat!

How to Make A Mother's Day Brunch Board

Lately, charcuterie boards have been a trend across social media. I saw people making meat and cheese boards for at home game nights, dessert boards for Easter celebrations, and hummus dip board to satisfy their snacking cravings. So my sister and I decided to jump on the trend and create a brunch board for Mother’s Day and it turned out to be a lot of fun! Below are the items we made for our board, but I’m sure any brunch food items you think of and/or craving would be great.

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Egg and Pesto Breakfast Sandwiches- Scrambled eggs is a brunch staple, but I wanted to put a more creative spin on it. Thanks to Half Baked Harvest for the inspiration! These sandwiches were a hit!

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Herb Cheese and Ham Buns- No brunch is complete without some type of buns and this is our version! We got the recipe from Half Baked Harvest, however, I ended up making a few adjustments to the dough by adding more flour because the original recipe resulted in extremely sticky dough that was impossible to work with. I also didn’t have everything bagel seasoning on hand so I simply added a few random spices and ham.

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Fried Chicken Tenders- We’ve been obsessed with our air fryer lately and thought these fried chicken tenders would be the perfect complement to the blueberry pancakes we also made. We simply substituted the mozzarella sticks in this Delish recipe for fried chicken.

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Turkey Bacon- I’m a huge bacon lover, but normal bacon just feels too heavy so I substituted with turkey bacon and threw it in the air fryer for 7 minutes.

Orange and Chocolate Chip Muffins- Our refrigerator had too many oranges that needed to be used up, so I thought an orange themed pastry would be perfect. Thanks to this recipe by Laura in the Kitchen, I created these delicious (and surprisingly crispy!) orange and chocolate chip muffins. Muffins plate really well and last longer than other pastries, so I made them the night before in order to save time.

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Blueberry Pancakes- Use this recipe if you want fluffy yummy pancakes! This was my first time making pancakes from scratch instead of using a pancake mix so I have to say I was a little nervous over how they would turn out. But this recipe is easy to follow and you can add whatever filling you want- I used up leftover blueberries that I had.

Fruit- I used strawberries and grapes to brighten up my brunch board. Most of the food I made was brown so the colorful red and purple livened up my board. I also placed the fruit in bowls to create break up the food setup a little, but also to prevent my board from getting wet and the surrounding food items from getting soggy.


I loved creating the brunch board for my mom and can’t wait to make more boards later for other guests!

Postcards from the River Oak's Azalea Trail

The funny thing about Houston and living that suburb life is that right when you think your life has settle into a slow moving pace, something cool comes along and perks your interest right up again. I had gotten into a routine of just eating and working out on weekends when I wasn’t traveling with maybe the occasional movie theater outing or birthday party sprinkled in. But recently I’ve been putting in much more effort in exploring my hometown and finding out all the events that take place in the city. I came across the Azalea Trail- an annual garden themed home tour that the River Oaks Garden Club hosts for the public. The Trail lets ticket holders tour 4 private homes, the Rienzi Museum (I’ve already visited!), Bayou Bend Gardens, and the River Oaks Garden Club Headquarters at the Forum. Now, anyone that knows me well knows that I love architecture and private homes. Does this make me a nosy person? Probably… But it also made the Azalea Trail a perfect event for me! For $30 I was able to live my millionaire lifestyle for 5 hours and enjoy some beautiful homes and gardens!

The Forum

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Bayou Bend Gardens

I will definitely be coming back to visit Bayou Bend- the Gardens are huge! So many acres of peaceful beauty!

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Rienzi Museum

I visited the Rienzi on a private tour a few weeks back- check out my in depth visit here. This time there was no tour guide bringing me around to every room explaining historical and artistic significances, but there were beautiful tulips that the River Oaks Garden Club worked hard to plant!

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3606 Chevy Chase Drive

We weren’t allowed to take pictures inside the homes, but this River Oaks mansion was a GEM. It had recently be renovated and was the most beautiful bright sunny space ever. There were giant windows everywhere and the entire home felt so warm and genuine.

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2154 Inwood

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15 Courtland Place

I thought it was so unique that the owners installed a river path on the driveway. Although, personally I would have liked to actually use the driveway to park my car inside the garage. This home, along with the one below, was located inside a private gated community with a security guard.

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19 Courtland Place

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Bonus- No girls day is complete without brunch so my friends and I started our Trail at the beautiful River Oaks restaurant, State of Grace. The food doesn’t come cheap, but the atmosphere is worth it!

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More to come on my Houston explorations!

Postcards from the Rienzi Museum

I had a few hours to spare on a Saturday afternoon in Houston and was curious on what I could do. I’m still in the process of exploring the city and I have to say, its a lot harder exploring Houston than it was exploring New York. Having to drive everywhere and build in lengthy commute time really prevented me from scheduling more activities during a day. I’ve learned to build a day’s worth of things to do all based on the neighborhood that I plan to hang out in. Earlier this day, I ate at the delicious Southern restaurant, Backstreet Cafe, and then decided to head to the Rienzi Museum afterwards. The Rienzi is part of the Houston Museum of Fine Arts and located near Buffalo Bayou in the River Oaks district. It’s only a 3 minute drive from Backstreet Cafe so it was the perfect pair. The Museum can only be seen on a docent led tour so make sure to call ahead (no they don’t have online booking) and make a reservation for a tour. Tours are held on the hour Wednesday to Saturday from 10am to 3pm and on Sundays on the hour from 1pm to 4pm. Visiting the Gardens surrounding the Museum is free, however, and doesn’t require a tour. Tickets are only $10 and the experience lasts a little over an hour. I love tours (you get to learn so much more instead of just wandering around aimlessly) so I was really looking forward to seeing the Rienzi. Its located inside a River Oaks mansion and is stocked to the brim with antiques and history. You’ll be able to tell from my pictures below, but the Rienzi is truly a beautiful place.

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Mr. Masterson spent extensive time in London while serving in the U.S military. As a result, a lot of the home’s design and artwork is English inspired. The library below is reflective of a typical wealthy British family library with its central portrait and surrounding bookshelves.

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The Masterson family (who are the previous owners of the Rienzi before it became a museum) designated a room in their house to have Mexican influence and art. Mrs. Masterson had lived in Mexico City for several years before marrying Mr. Masterson and moving to Texas. Mexico City remained a large part of her life and she wanted it reflected in her home. The design of the room below (which was their bar area where they entertained guests before dinner) included Mexican inspired tile design and artwork.

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The original Masterson home did not include this dark green and white tiled walkway (below)and the rooms located off of it. As the family grew in size (and wealth) they added it on as an extension to their home. The family loved entertaining and the extension allowed them to build a ballroom (seen above).

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The white marble statue below was part of the house before the Mastersons purchased it. They chose to keep it in the entry foyer even after becoming its new owners.

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If you’re visiting Houston anytime soon, I recommend making a short stop at the Rienzi! It’s the perfect place to spend a sunny afternoon.

How to Pass Time When You Can’t Leave Your House

So the virus has officially entered America. It’s changed the way we live all our lives currently and maybe for far in the future as well. First of all, I want to express my gratitude to all the first responders and medical personnel working their butts off to help treat patients and contain the virus and keep us safe. I also want to express sympathy for those small business owners and employees of restaurants, airlines, workout studios, and anyone whose jobs and employment will be adversely affected by the pandemic. Houston has closed restaurants and bars for in house dining and advised us to stay home and social distance. I can only imagine how much worry is going into being able to pay bills and provide for a family. For most of us, we’re now facing weeks and potentially months at home with not much to keep us busy. I started working from home last week and with all my impending work deadlines, I’ve luckily had plenty to keep me occupied on weekdays. But with the looming weekends ahead of us, some of us are wondering how we’ll be able to survive 2 days at home cooped with several family members and pets. They say that sticking to routine as much as possible is key so in keeping with my Type A personality and my love for writing in my Lilly Pulitzer planner, I’ve been planning out my weekends with little activities and noting them down. These activities helped me pass time- I actually haven’t felt too bored at all! There is definitely more to social distancing than sleeping the day away!

Work on a Puzzle

A friend recently suggested The New Yorker 500 piece or 1000 piece puzzles and I love the idea! I”m normally not patient enough to invest my time in completing even a 500 piece puzzle (I just want the finished product really), but now all I have is time indoors so I thought why not. Puzzles can be purchased on Amazon or from the New York Puzzle Company and delivered to your doorstep in a few days- you won’t even have to leave home for it. I can’t believe I’m this excited to get cracking at putting together my 1000 piece puzzle, but look how cute it is!

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Do an Online Workout

So many closed workout studios are taking their beloved classes online to share with those of us quarantined at home. My favorite 305 Fitness has been doing live dance classes on YouTube hosted by the founder, Sadie Kurzban, Define Body has free online classes and Pure Barre is doing a free 60 day trial. And don’t forget about your classic YouTube workouts that have always been online- Cassie Ho from Blogilates has a 14 day quarantine workout perfect for energizing your body. It is definitely going to be a different experience working out from home, but you have to do what you have to do!

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Learn a New Skill via Online Classes

Brit + Co has provided the code “selfcare” for anyone who wishes to participate in one of their numerous online classes. The code lets you join a class- free!- and learn a new skills. There are classes from cake decorating to instagram photography to modern calligraphy. We’re all stuck indoors, but that doesn’t mean we can’t keep learning and piquing our interests!

Read A Book

I’m currently working on a year long challenge where I plan to read 52 books in 52 weeks- one book per week basically. With how hectic my days are usually, I had fallen behind a little (I’m suppose to have read 13 books by now…). But now that I’m stuck at home with nowhere to go, it is the perfect time to catch up! The libraries may all be closed to the public, but did you know that most libraries are conducting curbside pickup of books you place on hold? In person browsing may not be allowed anymore, but I’ve been browsing the library online catalogs and placing holds on books that I’m interested in reading. Once your book is ready for checkout, you simply call the library and tell them the date and time you plan to come pick up the book and they will check the book out for you and bring it out to your car when you arrive. If your library is closed, there is always ebooks and ordering physical books off Amazon. I picked up Reese Witherspoon’s first book club pick, Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine, and finished it within 2 days because it was that amazing. Some other books on my to read list include Ali Wong’s Dear Girls, Zoella’s March book club pick One of Us Is Lying, City of Girls by Elizabeth Gilbert, and Loveboat Taipei by Abigail Hing Wen.

Bake Your Own Desserts

Just because I’m now stuck at home with nowhere to go, doesn’t mean that my sweet tooth has disappeared. Unfortunately, a lot of my favorite bakeries in Chinatown or central Houston are too far a drive for me to go and pick up some desserts. So I’ve been at home baking my own sweet treats! I’m a huge fan of the Sprinkles Baking Book by Sprinkles Cupcakes founder, Candace Nelson, and have successfully tried out many of their recipes. Just recently, my sister and I spent a Saturday afternoon baking the chocolate marshmallow cupcake. We didn’t have any marshmallows readily available at home (and didn’t want to brave the crowds at the grocery store) so we substituted the marshmallows for chocolate chips and the cupcakes turned out delicious. If cupcakes aren’t really your thing, don’t worry because there are more than just cupcakes in the book! I have my eye on a chocolate chip cookie cake recipe and a lemon yogurt glazed muffin recipe next.

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Get Creative with Crafts

A few weeks ago I took a watercolor calligraphy and greeting card making class at a local stationary store, Katie & Co. It got me hooked into making cute decorative cards for every single person (and I mean every) that I could think of. I place a curbside pickup order (I could really get use to all this curbside pickup to be honest) for Michael’s and within an hour, had my calligraphy brush pens, card stock cards and envelopes, and watercolor paint set. Over the past weekend, I spent hours painting, writing, and designing greeting cards! I rarely take the time to get creative and use my left brain to produce something fun so it was a real treat having so much time to fill with craft making. And for those of you who love crafts but aren’t super creative? A tip- use Pinterest and Google Images for inspiration!

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As a planner, the uncertainty of life right now bothers me so much. As an extroverted personality, having to stay indoors away from most of my friends and fun plans is equally torturous. But I have to keep in mind that its not the end of the world! These 6 activities have brightened up my day in various ways. I hope they do the same for yours. Stay safe!

What To Do In Houston When You're Bored

First of all, I’ve realized since becoming a Texas again, that Houstonians don’t really like leaving their homes. Most people prefer to stay in and host a bbq or invite friends over to watch a baseball game. Whereas New Yorkers like to picnic in Central Park or stroll around Soho for fun. With my personality, I just couldn’t endure staying indoors all the time with no end in sight. So I started researching activities in Houston and there is a decent amount of interesting things to do! Its not great that everything is far apart and requires a drive, but I guess that’s the price to be paid for a lower cost of living. Something I have to tell myself every week when the weekend hits and I want to leave my house and be active, but feel like there is nothing to do except go to the mall or watch a movie (typical suburban life stuff). Coming from the exciting New York City and moving back to the suburbs has been a serious adjustment for me. Instead of simply walking outside my apartment and being bombarded with so many things to do, I had to actually research online through publications and social media to discover what Houston had going on. And I discovered that there is a lot!

Houston Museum of Natural Science

I recently joined the young professionals membership at the Science Museum and I have to say, I’m pretty excited for all the discounts and events yet to come. Every summer the Museum hosts 3 young professionals events called Mixers and Elixirs and its a great way to dance the night away under the gaze of giant dinosaurs while sipping wine and snacking on food truck food. The parties usually sell out and are filled with people mingling and just plain having fun. The Museum’s Halloween party, Spirits and Skeletons, is another extremely popular event that usually maxes out as well. As for exhibits, the Museum has really stepped up its game from the normal dull exhibits I remember from childhood. My sister and I recently went to one called Art of Brick which showcased different famous art pieces and statues made from Legos.

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Color Factory/ Candytopia/ Fomo Factory

Similar to other cities, Houston has been overrun by “Instagram popups” and selfie taking opportunities. Most, in my opinion, are a waste of money because they charge $20+ just to take photos in a few rooms, which aren’t always designed well either (um hello Museum of Pizza in Brooklyn…). However, Color Factory and Candytopia are actually good quality popup exhibits. I brought my little sister to Candytopia and we had fun collecting candy from all the different colorful rooms while seeing the various candy made sculptures that had been created by talented artists. Its amazing to see what thousands of Swedish Fish can make. Color Factory doubles as an educational visit because it provides knowledge on colors and how they shape our lives.

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Brunch in Rice Village

Rice Village has become one of my favorite places in hang out in Houston. Not only is it located in the adorable West University neighborhood, which is filled with families and Rice University students, but its also loaded with tons of great stores and a bunch of delicious restaurants. A perfect Houston Saturday for me would include brunching and grabbing coffee at one of the hundreds of cafes and restaurants that line the streets and then walking around the neighborhood window shopping. My favorite Rice Village restaurant is Benjys- its a farm to table menu that rotates based on the reason. Benjy’s menus also have themes like Cajun or American. Currently, the menu has a Japanese fusion twist to it and the food is amazing! I also adore Coco’s Crepes (they have a variety of sweet and savory cakes and a layout great for solo dining or studying), Celebrity Cupcakes (these cupcakes are better than Sprinkles!), Purple Kow (for my bubble tea cravings of course), and the sandwhiches at Mendocino Farms (there’s a big outdoor patio perfect for eating sandwiches and people watching).

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Workout Classes

One of my favorite pastimes in New York was exploring the many unique workout studios the big city had to offer. From cardio dance to hot yoga to kickboxing NYC had it all. While Houston doesn’t offer as many outstanding studios, there are still a few I’ve come to like. Working out is a great way to past the time when you have nothing to do, while keeping healthy and losing calories! Never having been a huge fan of spinning classes (its hard on my left knee), I was surprised at how much I enjoyed Ride Indoor Cycling. The bikes are top notch and make my body feel very supported, which so far has alleviated me from having knee pain at the end of the class. Plus, the music here is amazing. All their instructors have such good sense of music that I’m sure creating the perfect workout playlists must have been part of their interview process. The spinning classes are a mix of upper body movements, weights, and cycling so it gives you an full body workout. The first class is free and every class after that is $22. Make sure to look out for those fun themed classes as well (I loved the Lizzo vs. Rihanna class)! Another workout studio that has proven its worth to me is Define Body. Define has a mix of barre, yoga, cycling, dance, and trampoline classes. Being the only studio in Houston that offers trampoline classes, I knew I had to try it. I loved trampoline cardio classes when I lived in New York. I mean what’s not to love? You get to work out and have fun bouncing around! Define’s classes are $24 each, but look out for deals because there’s always something going on- I bought 10 classes for $100 in November.

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Rooftop Cinema

Quite possibly my most favorite thing about Houston! When I lived in New York, Rooftop Cinema only operated during the summer months (due to weather restrictions) and almost always sold out in minutes after its movie lineups were released. In Houston, however, Rooftop Cinema is year round (its heated in the winter time!) and sells out a lot slower. Don’t get me wrong- the movies still sell out, especially around the holidays when the Cinema usually shows themed movies, like Halloweentown or Home Alone. I love the concept of watching a film outside under the stars on comfy lawn chairs. Plus, there are no sound disturbances because every moviegoer has their own pair of headphones! Bonus- If you have a Visa signature credit card, there are additional discounts and free unlimited popcorn. Its a great place to spend a Friday night- Rooftop Cinema is located on top of Whole Foods and Ninfa’s so there’s dinner options available before and after the movie. Rooftop Cinema is currently closed for the season (The last day of movies was 12/31), but it will reopen again in the spring!

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I’m still exploring my new hometown so I’ll keep Toast and Travel updated with anything else great I find!

New York Happenings- Episode 3

Something I’ve been wanting to start on this blog is a weekly post of everything that I’m experiencing in New York. It’s no secret that as a 9-5er I live for the weekend. Two precious days out of the entire week where I can explore to my heart’s content and do whatever it is I want. I never leave my weekend unplanned! I usually always have something set up for me to do or eat and I can’t wait to share that with all my readers. I hope some of this inspires you to either visit New York and see all of its greatness for yourself or to grow a passion to explore your own city.


Union Square Sweat Fest

I randomly came across the Union Square Sweat Fest online (I’m still not sure how it quite happened), but its such an awesome opportunity to take advantage of free or reduced workout classes and check out some Union Square businesses. I love how different neighborhoods support their own local workout studios, restaurants, and stores! I participated in a free HIIT (and nearly died) at the Jack Rabbit Union Square store and then purchased a $25 boxing class at Throwdown Fitness that included a Dig Inn bowl as well as a second complimentary Throwdown class.

CYC

February 11-15 was New York Company Week and my friend send me a plus one class at CYC because her company was participating in the week. However, what we both didn’t realize was that CYC actually gave us each a total of 8 free classes! This translated to a spinning class a day… my butt and legs were never more sore. CYC has studio locations in Chelsea, Astor Place (my preferred location), Hells Kitchen, and Upper East Side. Classes are normally $22 each and include shoe rental.

Chinatown

When I first moved to New York I was obsessed with the cheap dumplings in Chinatown and how affordable and delicious everything was. As I became older I gradually moved on to other areas of New York (aka West Village) and forgot about how great of a gem Manhattan Chinatown is. Recently, I’ve been rediscovering Chinatown by eating at some of the cheap eats and drinking bubble tea at some of the new cafes that have opened up. I loved the peanut butter sauce noodles at Shu Zhao Fu Zhou (it only costed $2.50!) and the delicious roasted oolong milk tea at Macao Imperial Tea.

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City Bakery’s Hot Chocolate Festival

Every February City Bakery hosts an entire month of unique and changing flavors of their signature hot chocolate. In the past I’ve tried lemon white hot chocolate and cookie butter hot chocolate- both of which I ordered with the giant homemade marshmallo City Bakery is known for. This year their Babe Ruth hot chocolate with its splash of bourbon and peanut brittle infused in it was delicious. I love how rich their chocolate is and how flavorful it is.

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Ole & Steen

Ole & Steen is a Danish bakery arriving in NYC from Copenhagen just earlier this year. It is inside a beautiful space located near Union Square and serves up a huge variety of pastries and sandwiches. I’ve had been seeing pictures of the chocolate swirl bun floating around Instagram and stopped by to try one, but due to some unfortunate miscommunications I left with just a chocolate bun which is apparently not the same thing as the swirl one… Lesson learned- remember to say the word swirl!

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New York Happenings- Episode 2

Something I’ve been wanting to start on this blog is a weekly post of everything that I’m experiencing in New York. It’s no secret that as a 9-5er I live for the weekend. Two precious days out of the entire week where I can explore to my heart’s content and do whatever it is I want. I never leave my weekend unplanned! I usually always have something set up for me to do or eat and I can’t wait to share that with all my readers. I hope some of this inspires you to either visit New York and see all of its greatness for yourself or to grow a passion to explore your own city.

Mean Girls on Broadway

Thanks to the semi- annual Broadway Week that took place from the end of January to the beginning of February I was able to watch the hilarious Mean Girls musical with my roommate! I was genuinely surprised by how funny the musical was and how well the story line followed the original movie’s plot. The music was actually really great and catchy- all the actors/actresses voices were amazing! I especially loved that the actress who portrayed Gretchen in the musical was an Asian American woman- Ashley Park. I’m sure she surprised so many audience members with her talents, big voice (and big hair), and funny lines. It is so great to see all these Asian Americans popping up everywhere in the media nowadays because representation truly matters!

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Rice and Gold

As Chinese New Years continues, I had a delicious Chinese New Years dinner with a friend at the bougie Rice and Gold restaurant located under the 50 Bowery Hotel. Although it is Asian inspired, the food at Rice and Gold was a yummy variety of fusion food such as miso butter rice cake, kimchi brisket ramen (which they ran out and I was sadly unable to eat), boiled pork fried rice, and peking duck wraps. The space is huge and decorated with tons of graffiti murals so not only is it relatively easy to get a table (and bonus- you won’t be all cramped), it is also an enjoyable experience trying to spot all the different artwork on the walls.

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Andy Warhol @ Whitney Museum

The Andy Warhol exhibit at the Whitney Museum is ongoing until the end of March and it was pretty cool getting to see his artwork from the different stages of his life while learning about the artist himself. I chose to go to the Whitney on a Friday night after 7pm so I could take advantage of the pay what you wish tickets. Beware- there is a seemingly long line but it moves FAST so don’t feel discouraged! The Museum has 6 floors, but the Andy Warhol exhibits are located on floors 1,3, and 5. The exhibit will be at the Whitney until end of March.

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305 Fitness

My all time favorite workout class! I’m a horrendous dancer (trust me you don’t want to run into me on the dance floor), but 305’s well organized and easy to follow dance cardio classes allow me to let my dancing urges out in a safe and nonjudgmental environment. All the instructors are always so full of energy and happiness and are always so motivating. Although during class you may be dying from sweat and running out of breath, afterwards you will feel like you managed to get a great workout in while having loads of fun. I usually feel like I was just at an hour long dance party where I did a few jumping jacks, did some squats, and danced to Ciara’s Level Up. 305 has 3 locations in Upper East Side, Midtown East, and Greenwich Village and classes are typically $34 for a single class (although there are always deals).

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Ateaz UES

I was looking for a nice spacious (because I hate being squished) cafe to get some work done and came across this brand new UES cafe on my way home from a 305 class one day. There is a huge selection of desserts and coffees as well as brunch and breakfast items. For my first visit, I tried the chocolate stick with whipped cream, a bacon egg and cheese croissant, and a cookie butter latte. In my opinion, cafes usually serve mediocre food and focus on their caffeinated drinks, but Ateaz actually has decent food and the desserts are definitely on point. I can’t wait to come back to try their red velvet latte and baklava cheesecake. The wifi is also free and there are tons of little tables and a giant comfy couch!

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This weekend I am in Madrid! I try to go on a solo trip at least once a year just because its so enjoyable being only accountable for myself and getting to do what I want when I want. Stay tuned for my Madrid adventures!

New York Happenings- Episode 1

Something I’ve been wanting to start on this blog is a weekly post of everything that I’m experiencing in New York. It’s no secret that as a 9-5er I live for the weekend. Two precious days out of the entire week where I can explore to my heart’s content and do whatever it is I want. I never leave my weekend unplanned! I usually always have something set up for me to do or eat and I can’t wait to share that with all my readers. I hope some of this inspires you to either visit New York and see all of its greatness for yourself or to grow a passion to explore your own city. Every weekend I’ll post some activities I’ve done over the past week or some yummy food I’ve eaten!

This View

Back I was living on the West side of Manhattan, I was only 8 blocks from this gorgeous view and came to the Columbus Circle Shops often to soak in its beauty. Although more and more tourists are finding out about the Shops, its still a wonderful escape from city life and a great opportunity to have some delicious pastries at Bouchon Bakery, experience afternoon tea at Bluebird London, or get some shopping in at Whole Foods or H&M.

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Y7

I’ve been on a yoga kick recently and Y7’s 90 degree heated yoga rooms are the perfect spot for my yoga loving body. Its heated, but not quite hot yoga (120 degrees…) so its a good alternative for beginner yogis like myself who want a hot yoga experience but can’t yet commit to those high temperatures. Y7 also plays hip hop music during their sessions so boredom is really not an option. There are so many locations across Manhattan and each are varying sizes and have different amenties so check as many of them out as you can like I have. Personally, I love the classy and spacious Upper East Studio where I can spread my mat out without being too close to a sweaty guy. I love how refreshed this yoga class leaves me and how my skin always feels great the next day.

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Petrossian Bakery and Cafe

While Petrossian is mainly known for its caviar, it also has a delicious selection of baked goods and a tiny cafe tucked in the back. Located near Central Park and Columbus Circle on 57th street and 7th avenue, the exterior of Petrossian seems like an old school shop from the 1920’s where only the wealthy could afford to enter, but once you enter you’re able to smell the heavenly smell of pastries and see the warm smile of the employee and everything feels normal again. I had the hardest time choosing between a thick and fluffy double chocolate chunk cookie or a chocolate chip and pecan cookie. I eventually went with the latter after telling the sweet girl behind the counter to help another woman first so I could have more time to weigh this very important decision. My cookie of choice was HUGE and chewy and so delicious- basically one of the best cookies ever.

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Spyscape

I’ve been wanting to visit this spy themed museum since it opened a few years back and thanks to the New York Must See Week I was able to purchase tickets at a buy one get one deal (basically at a 50% discount). The exhibits are interactive so while youre able to read about interesting facts about surveillance, traitors, and spies, you are also able to take quizzes and play games. The scores you receive on the quizzes and games are tracked using a barcode that is tied to your name and are later used to profile you to see which spy role you are most suited for. Apparently in another life I should have become a surveillance officer because of my strong skills at staring at TV screens…

David Burke Tavern

I love New York Restaurant Week because it lets ordinary people like myself have amazing culinary experiences at an affordable price. In the past, I’ve been lucky enough to eat at the Michelin starred Clocktower thanks to NY Restaurant Week. For $26 for a two course lunch, I can join in the dining crowds at some of the city’s most exclusive restaurants. This year I chose to eat at David Burke Tavern and it didn’t disappoint. Those lobster dumplings made my whole day!

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This week I’ll be heading to Madrid (!) for a fun filled vacation. I can’t wait to eat churros dipped in chocolate, see the fabulous Prado Museum, and stay in a European hostel for the first time. More importantly, I can’t wait to share my adventures with all of you!

Spring 2019 New York Bucket List

I’ve always lived each year of New York as my possible last because I never know when it will be time to move back to Texas. While I’ve made New York my home these past 4 years I’ve always known that eventually I’d like to settle down in Houston closer to my family and childhood friends. Since I’ve viewed my New York days as temporary and all the more precious, I’ve spent every moment trying new things and eating at new restaurants. 2019 will be no different as I embark on another year of New York adventures. One of the reasons why I love New York so much is that there is always something to do. The words “I’m bored” have never come out of my mouth. New restaurants are always opening, artists are always performing at the various venues around the city, museum exhibit are always rotating, and of course the staple New York sights are always there. Here are a few of the items on my New York bucket list this spring- I’m already working on crossing a few of these items out!

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See Mean Girls on Broadway

I’ve been meaning to see the Mean Girls musical for a few months now, but never found the time. Mean Girls was one of my favorite movies growing up (who didn’t love how mean the Plastics were and how relatable Cady was?) and when I discovered that Gretchen was going to be played by an Asian American woman (Ashley Park) I knew I had to support the musical. Thanks to the semi-annual New York Broadway Week where shows are buy one get one (essentially 50% off), I was able to snag two tickets for my roommate and I to watch Mean Girls. This year’s Broadway Week lineup was amazing and included all shows currently playing on Broadway-usually some of the more popular shows (ie. Dear Evan Hansen and Anastasia) are excluded from the deals. I love how the city puts on events like this to make the normally expensive Broadway musicals affordable to a much larger audience.

 

Go to the Spy Museum

As a lover and huge fan of literally every single crime show to ever hit television (CSI, Criminal Minds, Law and Order), this Museum seemed like a no brainer visit for me. Spyscape is an interactive museum that allows visitors to solve crimes and learn what its like to work as an investigator. I am totally ready to feel like Detective Olivia Benson, out in the city ready to defend the innocent. Tickets are normally $44, but because of the annual New York Must See Week (thanks New York for all these awesome deals!), I was able to purchase two tickets at buy one get one free. I’ve been to almost every museum in the city and this is one of the last ones that peaked my interest.

 

Soak in the Infinity Pool at Sojo Spa

Although Sojo Spa isn’t located in New York technically, it does offer a fabulous view of the city and is only a short bus ride away from Port Authority (the spa provides free shuttles as well. I’ve never been to an infinity pool and couldn’t believe that there was one so close to where I live. The entrance price is pretty steep at $70 per person on the weekends, but consider it a staycation retreat and you’ll thoroughly enjoy it. Unfortunately, as we are in the dead of winter right now, I will have to wait for warmer weather to appear before I indulge in this bucket list item. Fingers crossed winter doesn’t last until May this year!

 

Eat Pizza at Lucali’s and Lombardi’s

Lucali’s always has a huge line wrapped around the corner, which is why its taken me so long to want to trek out to Brooklyn and try it. But since I rarely wait in line for food now, I think Lucali’s can be the one restaurant this year that I deem worthy of a long wait. I’m a big lover of pizza so I know I can’t possibly leave New York without tasting the pizza here. Lombardi’s is suppose to be the first pizzeria ever opened in the U.S- making it a must go in my books. It’s a slice of history that I can’t find anywhere else!

 

Have a Photoshoot in Central Park

Since the day I moved to New York I’ve wanted to hire a professional photographer and take some updated photos. Central Park is also one of my favorite spots in the city because its giant green space just can’t be replicated anywhere else in the U.S. There’s something so magical about escaping the city for a few hours (while still being in it) and getting lost in Central Park’s many trails, ponds, and huge rocks. I want to capture the beauty of the Park as well as my love for it in photos so whenever its time to move away, I’ll always have documented memories of the place.

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Listen to Live Music at Café Wha

If you’re ever in Greenwich Village around nighttime, you’ll probably have seen the long lines outside a corner green building. It took me so long (too long!) to find out what that long line was for. Café Wha is a seated live music venue with food and drinks that famous musicians have played at. It is a New York institution and one of the hidden gems of the city. I would love to get tickets one day enjoy at night out at the Café. Who wants to join me?

 

Explore Bushwick

I am such a Manhattanite and am guilty of rarely leaving the city to see what else is in the other boroughs. Now that the L train, which connects Manhattan to many areas of Brooklyn, is shutting down soon (April to be exact) for years of repairs, I have a limited amount of time to see what the far reaching Bushwick neighborhood is like. So on my bucket list is to take pictures of the murals that are part of the Bushwick Collective and brunch and coffee at Little Skips (the most hipster coffee bar I’ve seen yet. I know if I were to return to New York as a tourist one day after moving back to Texas, I wouldn’t want to spend my precious time trekking so deep into Brooklyn so while I’m still a proud New York resident I have to check out Bushwick.

New Year, Same Old Me

Happy New Year! What has everyone been up to since 2019 started? Personally, I’ve been a little overwhelmed with all the new work projects that will be starting up again on top of figuring out a good workout schedule, fitting in an active social life, and scheduling in my volunteering commitments and travels in between. I also want to make this blog a priority because I know I fell behind with posting regularly in 2018. The beginning of a year is usually a time where people set goals for themselves and seek out a fresh start. For me, I’ve become slightly disillusioned with the whole process of setting resolutions. While it is nice to have goals to reach, I always feel disappointed myself in the end of the year when I realize how far I’ve fallen off the wagon or that I’ve kept none of my resolutions. Sometimes throughout the year my goals change or unforeseen events happen and it just throws everything off because I promised myself earlier in the year that I would be on a certain other path. I’ve held back so far from posting a 2019 Goals post because I wanted to reevaluate what I truly want out of 2019. And I’ve decided that I want 2019 to just be spontaneous and flexible. I’m anticipating a few big changes in my life and I want to create goals as I go along. Instead, I want to share with yall some lessons I’ve learned this past year.

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Lesson One- Intermittent fasting Isn’t that hard and it works MIRACLES

I’ve been trying to lose weight for a while now and it just seemed that the weight was never coming off. Restricting myself from certain foods (is. carbs, sugar, fat) was just too difficult. If I told myself to not eat pizza, it only made me crave it more and then binge eat it on an eventual cheat day. A friend recommended that I try intermittent fasting because eating less food seemed more feasible than eating from certain categories. At first, I cheated a bunch because fitting meals in an eight hour feeding window (noon to 8pm for me) was SO hard, but gradually it became easier and easier. Then one day I realized that it had become part of my routine to eat my first meal of the day at noon and my last meal of the day at 7pm. When I discovered I had lost 10 pounds from cutting down on the amount of food eaten, it became extremely motivating. My body felt stronger and all my old clothes fit again! If weight loss is something that you’ve been struggling with as well, I highly recommend intermittent fasting.

Lesson Two- Weather can mess up your travel plans and stress you out, but that’s ok

My 2018 started out pretty stressful because my January trip to Quebec City fell through due to bad weather in both New York and Canada. I waited at LaGuardia Airport for 6 hours in purgatory not knowing whether or not my flight would be cancelled- there was so much false hope given! And if you’ve ever been to LaGuardia, you know it is definitely not the best place to wait for a delayed flight- especially when the people around you are all having their flights delayed and eventually cancelled as well. I was really disappointed in the cancelled trip, but managed to make it out to Quebec City in December so all things considered it did end up working out. The whole experience made me a better traveler, one who is more equipped to deal with flight issues and know how to use the system to my advantage. At the end of the day there isn’t anything anyone can do if the weather turns on you, so just keep an eye on the travel advisories and if your flight is one that the airlines are allowing free changes on make sure you take advantage of that and change your flight to avoid the impending storm. The key to making it through travel stress is definitely preparation!

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Lesson Three- Plan out how you plan to use your PTO days in advance to avoid running out

Limited PTO days is one of the biggest downsides of working a full time job. It’s what makes earning a good salary into a double edged sword because while I have money to travel and pursue my passions, I now lack the time to actually go anywhere. Over the years, I’ve learned how to take advantage of holidays by combining them with my vacation days in order to get the most out of my precious PTO. One of the smartest things I did this year was have an idea way back in January of how I wanted to use my days. I knew I wanted to take the entire weeks of Thanksgiving and Christmas off to spend with family in Texas and I knew I had bridesmaid duties in Austin to perform so I properly allocated at the beginning of the year and planned out all other vacations around it. Many people ask me how I travel so much throughout the year while having a full time job and this is really my secret- plan, plan, plan!

Lesson Four- It’s ok to be fearful of traveling abroad, but don’t let that fear paralyze you

A common theme I’ve recognized in our media this year was the number of women who were murdered abroad while either traveling alone or with other women. In fact, Carla Stefaniak was assaulted and killed in Costa Rica at an Airbnb near the airport a mere 2 weeks before I was scheduled to go there with my high school friends and stay there in an Airbnb. It was actually one of the few times I questioned my decision to travel to a destination. I was so sure that something negative was going to happen to us and it honestly kept me up at night while I was preparing for the trip. After that first night in Costa Rica, however, I realized that my fear was preventing me from enjoying the beautiful country and soaking in all the goodness that Costa Rica provided. While it is ok to be vigilant while abroad (especially when you are traveling alone), letting it come between you and your experience of a country only wastes your time and impacts your view of that country. Why go somewhere just to lock yourself in a hotel room? Obviously, taking extra precautions and recognizing that it is not your home country and thus shouldn’t be as comfortable to you as your own country would be is a necessity. But constantly thinking about what can go wrong is not the way to go. I think having the right amount of fear is healthy- you don’t want to be so fearless that you’re no longer cautious- but you don’t want to have too much fear to the point where you’re afraid to try new experiences. I have several solo trips coming up this year and I definitely plan to remember this lesson moving forward.

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Lesson Five- Go only where you are passionate

This past year I felt many times that I was spending money and time to travel somewhere that I wasn’t truly interested in. I was only going there to please someone else or check it off some invisible list. The end result was that I became a little worn out from the constant travels and wondered why I was even in some destinations. I simply don’t have enough time or money to be going places I don’t like at the end of the day. For 2019, I want to only step on a plane if I’m passionate about where I’m going and only if I’m excited to step off that plane at the end of the journey. I want to travel more for myself and be more selfish about my travels. Instead of taking many small trips I want to save up for more international trips to Europe, Canada, or maybe even Asia. Traveling only where my passion takes me may lead inevitably to more solo trips and that’s something I can’t wait for!

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What are some lessons you guys learned in 2018?

My 2018 Goals

I usually hesitate on setting specific resolutions for myself at the beginning of the year because realizing towards the middle of the year or at the end of the year that you've forgotten about your resolutions and fallen off track can be super discouraging. Since I'm all about positivity, I typically like to avoid things that make me feel bad about myself. Another problem I have with resolutions is that I don't always know at the beginning of the year what I need to be improving or working on. Sometimes insights like that come to us randomly throughout the year as we naturally live our lives.

However, since I've entered my mid- twenties I've realized that there are many things in my life I haven't accomplished yet and that setting clear goals (not resolutions) can help me be motivated and pave the path that I should be taking for the year. I tried to make goals that I felt were attainable in a year and that I felt would help me grow. Note- these are not resolutions or things I want to change about myself. I'm content with the way I am, but there is always room for new dreams and new ideas.

Travel to 3 Foreign Countries

You guys have probably heard this one before because this is the one goal that I've kept and succeeded in achieving through all these years. Travel is one of my biggest passions, but its unfortunately not my full time job so it can be easy to forget to feed my passion when I'm busy trying to make a living. To avoid this pitfall, I decided a long time ago that I would explore at least 3 new destinations in foreign countries. I recap my previous years' adventures and highlight some of my travel plans here.

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Cook/Bake More

Its no secret that I love to eat out. Living in New York, there is no shortage of amazing restaurants or dessert bars available for me to try and quench my curiosity. I simply love exploring the dining scene and tasting all the different foods out there. However, dining out can be quite expensive and not always the healthiest option. Instead of committing to losing a certain amount of pounds (something that I know I can never willingly achieve), I want to make it a priority to improve my cooking and baking skills so that I'm more motivated to eat healthier homemade options instead of going out all the time. I made pesto pasta with chicken yesterday!

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Take Advantage of the Outdoors

When I lived in Texas I was always a homebody. I preferred to stay indoors watching TV or reading, rather than going outside. But being in a big city, I feel like I would be wasting my time if I just sat around all day in my house doing what I felt was comfortable. So one of my goals is to explore the outdoors and get more fresh air. I hiked the challenging Breakneck Mountain and tried white water rafting for the first time last year and loved the adrenaline. I can't wait to see what other outdoor activities await me- maybe rock climbing, hiking, or kayaking?

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Write Often and Write For Myself

Sometimes I get the feeling like I'm not doing enough for my blog or that no one is really reading what I write. I'm sure this is a common fear that many bloggers experience at some point. It occasionally makes me wonder if I'm just wasting my time and then I tend to want to write less. So I have to remind myself that one of the main reasons why I started Toast and Travel was so that I could document personally my experiences while living in New York and while traveling. It wasn't to try and impress other people or to make money. I want to spend this year improving the quality of my writing (which can only be achieved through more practice) and I want to write about things I'm passionate about without caring whether or not someone else is interested in it.

Make New Friends

I've always been under the impression that a person can never have enough good friends. I'm not talking about people you meet in passing and never speak to again, but instead those people who you meet and form a strong friendship with. I don't want to simply meet a bunch of new people- I want to make more lifelong friends. I've been blessed with some amazing best friends and sorority sisters both in New York and back in Texas and I couldn't have made it this far in life without them. Friendship has a special way of forming a support system that allows you to fall back when you need them and some experiences can only be experienced through having friends. I met some awesome friends in 2017 and I can't wait to see who will become my friend in 2018!

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What are some goals you guys have for the new year?

How to Stay Warm and Entertain Yourself When its 10 Degrees Outside

Until I started living in New York I had never experienced whether below 30 degrees. Now that I'm an official New Yorker, 10 degree whether on a weekly basis shouldn't bother me as much but it still does. Unbearable winters are something that I will never get use to! Mainly because it makes commuting outdoors and doing outdoor activities either extremely hard or flat out impossible. On days when the weather isn't cooperating (bomb cyclone I'm looking at you) I always rack my brain with something to do to kill the boredom. Staying at home is always an option, but it can be just SO boring sometimes. Here are some of the activities I've been doing since the weather has gone to the single digits.

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Read a book and indulge in coffee at your neighborhood cafe

Catch up on your reading at a cute cafe while feeding your caffeine addiction. I feel like I don't read as much as I use to (which is a shame) because of my hectic lifestyle so carving out some peaceful time at a coffee shop to just relax and read is so valuable. I've come across a few interesting reads the past few weeks and really recommend Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn (same author as Gone Girl), Into the Water by Paula Hawkins (author who wrote Girl on the Train), and The Girl Before by JP Delaney. Some of my favorite coffee shops in the city to drink my beloved latte at are Bluestone Lane and Birch Coffee.

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Soak in the knowledge at a local museum

What better way to stay warm than to just spend your whole afternoon indoors at a history museum or an art museum? Making your way through all the exhibits at a museum can possibly take hours and can definitely keep a person entertained for while. I recently went to peruse through the New York Historical Society's antique train collection and throughly enjoyed myself. Most museums also have little cafes or stores built in so give yourself some time to browse the shop options and the coffee selections. The restaurant at the Whitney Museum, Untitled, is suppose to have delicious chocolate chip cookies and warm milk.

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Treat yourself to some delicious hot chocolate and dessert

The one good thing I can think of about winter is that there is finally a good legitimate reason to drink hot chocolate 24/7. New York has some of the best hot chocolates- the white chocolate option at LA Burdick is one of my favorites. Also- what can be cuter than this chocolate mouse? City Bakery, located in the Flatiron district, does an annual hot chocolate festival every February where they have a different unique flavor of hot chocolate every day and some of the flavors are pretty creative! In the past I've tried a salted caramel hot chocolate, a peanut butter and jelly one, and a lemon and white chocolate flavor.

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Watch a Broadway show or movie

The Broadway 2 for 1 deal (2 tickets for the price of 1) went on sale again this past Friday and I managed to score tickets to Aladdin- a musical that I've been wanting to see for a while now on account of being a Disney fanatic. Hiding out at a majestic show theater or going to the movies to watch the most recent hits is a great way to pass a cold afternoon. Bonus- there are some fantastic movies out right now. I loved The Greatest Showman (Hugh Jackman is beyond amazing) and I, Tonya (it had 3 Golden Globe nominations).

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Brunch!

It is never too cold for brunch. Bundle yourself up and head to your favorite brunch spot because the line will probably be shorter since other people will be staying in. Most restaurants won't kick you even if you stay a while so take your time enjoying food and conversation. I recently discovered White Gold Butchers, a little restaurant that is part of and located inside a butchers shop. So it was no surprise to me that their meat was so fresh and delicious, but their potato and cheese pastry was wonderful as well! There is always a table available and its the perfect place to come by yourself for some alone time.

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What are some activities you do when its too cold to be outside?

Looking Back on 2017

2017 was pretty much a stable year for me, in terms that nothing too drastic happened and no big life changes occurred. I continued working as an IT auditor and hit my one year anniversary at my company. Although my childhood dog, Furry, passed away, we welcomed 3 new puppies into our family- Flipper, Ellie, and Pongo. I finally convinced my two best friends to visit me (from Seattle and Texas) and we had a blast hitting up all my favorite spots in New York. I hit 4 foreign countries this year and fulfilled my New Year's Resolution of traveling to at least 3 countries this year. Best of all, I launched this blog! It was always my dream to have my own blog where I could share my thoughts and write about things I was passionate about. I'm so happy Toast and Travel became a reality this year.

Although I definitely feel that this year wasn't my biggest travel year, I felt that 2017 was  the year when New York finally became home. I had always though of my time here as temporary- just an escape or an adventure from my Texas life. I didn't make too much of an effort in making new friends and I actively chose not to buy bigger items for my apartment with the sole thought that it would be hard to move back home to Texas. However, this was the first year where I thought of my NYC life as permanent and I began to create a solid community for myself by joining local organizations, volunteering, and having favorite hang out spots. I have high hopes for 2018 and can't wait to see what the year has in store for me, both travel wise and personally.

Just wanted to recap some highlights from my 2017 travel adventures! Most of these happened before this blog was launched so there weren't posts on everything, but you can bet that next year there will be a post for everywhere I travel to.

January

Las Vegas- I spent MLK weekend here with some of my sorority sisters as part of our 1st Annual Alumnae Retreat and... discovered that Vegas isn't my ideal city.

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February

Austin- My pledge sister (for whom I was a bridesmaid for) had her first baby! Baby William was born in mid February and luckily I had already booked my ticket to visit and see this little bundle of joy.

March

London- I had a 7 hour layover on my way from New York to India and didn't waste a moment of my time by escaping the airport to see Buckingham Palace. I've always wanted to visit London and this layover only deepened my lust for the city.

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Hyderabad and Bangalore, India- Although I was initially scared to venture into this country, my time in India completely overturned any preconceptions I had on the country. I loved every second I had on this adventure!

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April

Boston- Met up with 3 other sorority sisters for an impromptu trip to this city! We drank tea off the Boston Tea Party ship, devoured tons of lobster rolls, and walked across the Boston Marathon finish line.

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Ithaca, New York- Wedding season finally started! I drove upstate to attend a gorgeous little rustic wedding and had the opportunity to go on a few winery tours.

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May

Tampa- Came here for a work trip and throughly enjoyed the sun! Although by week 3 I began to desperately miss the city life...

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Portland, Maine- My best friend (finally) came to visit me in New York and we took a mini road trip up to the very photogenic town of Portland. All we did was eat tons of lobster rolls, go lighthouse hopping, and ride boats into the sunset!

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June

Columbus, Ohio- My second wedding of the year was held here and I was able to check Ohio off my list of US states that I had not yet visited. Although there wasn't too much to keep us entertained, we enjoyed tasting a little of the Midwest.

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China/Taiwan- My family had a huge family reunion here and I was able to meet so many relatives. This is also where I chopped off half my hair... #shorthairdontcare #itwastoohot

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July

Houston- I took an emergency flight back home so I could be with my doggy before he passed away.

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August

Washington DC- My sorority had its annual National Convention here so I took the bus down for a weekend of history and sisterhood. I loved getting to meet up with sisters that I hadn't seen since last year's Convention.

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Montreal, Canada- I passed the quarter of a century life mark in this country and celebrated my birthday with my sister on our annual sisters trip.

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September

Savannah, Georgia- My very first blog post! My friend and I relaxed here over Labor Day weekend and ate our fill of Southern food.

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Long Island, New York- After touring a few wineries in upstate New York, I decided to check out another two wineries located out in Long Island and discovered the beauty that is there (only an hour from the city too).

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October

Chicago- Another work trip, but this one gave me the opportunity to take awesome photos with this shiny bean! I also had tons of fun eating deep dish pizza and taking pictures on a box hanging out over a skyscraper

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November and December

Houston- Family time well deserved and well spent. It was nice just having time to relax in my childhood home and see all my old friends from high school.

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All I can say is 2017 was a busy year for me! What were some places you traveled to in 2017?